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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Dry Spell due to Health Probs
recently i have had a few major health problems going on after the birth of my son about 8 months ago and it had definantly hindered me and my husbands sexual relationship. we went to having sex almost every night to not even touching each other in almost a month. i know he wants it and i often feel bad when my body is too sore or i am too tired to give it to him. even a quick hand job or licking. i feel really bad and i can tell he is starting to get frustrated. i need some ideas on how to try and spice things up for us. or how i can try to get in the mood. any suggestions??
Re: Dry Spell due to Health Probs
Get another checkup. You could have made a lot of progress in 8 months.:)
There's always things like writing him a sexy love letter (yes, a real letter, using pen and ink) or writing hot short short stories.
If you aren't leery about it, there is also phone sex ---- also look into bouidoir photos. (they don't have to be nakey --- you could go the retro look and do something like a 50s or 40s pin up girl)
You can also have him masturbate and you watch and vice versa; there's also mutual masturbation.
See if any of these suggestions float your boat. Wishing you well.:)
Make a concentrated effort to restore intimacy outside of the bedroom. By cuddling during a movie, or giving a prolonged kiss as you leave for work, you may be surprised to even want more yourself!
The PP's masturbation idea is a good one. If you are truly too exhausted and physically weak to help, you can lay beside him and whisper sexy things in his ear. It may help him feel less neglected.