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Vibes needed
Hi girls,
I need some nestie vibes in the next few days. Tomorrow I go in for the rest of my habitual aborter blood panel (final 10/30) tubes then straight to the hospital for a minor surgical procedure to understand why I hemmorhaged in my last miscarriage and if I can safely carry a baby again. The results of those tests can go either way: 1) nothing found. Sorry about your luck in loosing two babies. Best wishes again.
2) something found. This is how we fix it. This is how your children died and it was your body's fault.
3) something really bad found that can't be corrected. I'm done.
Either way, all three options suck at different degrees.
Needless to say, on Thursday I'm meeting with a therapist to discuss my emotions and help me process all of this. I'm so done with this.
So there it is. Keep DH and I in your thoughts. We wish so greatly just to have no knowledge of this.
Re: Vibes needed
I can't imagine how difficult this must be. You'll be in my prayers.
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I wish you didn't have to go through this either. Honestly I hope option #2 is what comes up. Not knowing why you mc or even worse that you can never carry is very sad, at least if they find something they know they can fix you'll have answers.
Did you ever ask your cousin to get testing done?
Lots and lots of hugs and vibes to you and hubby.
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Thank you!
My chromosomes? That's part of the panel. I guess I want that option too.
The bloodwork can take 10 days plus Judd still needs to do his. The medical procedure results should be just minutes, unless they want further testing.
First of all I'm so sorry to hear that it's being done on the delivery floor. I've never understood why these things need to happen there.
Secondly you will be in my thoughts and I hope you get an answer that is encouraging and helps you know what to do! (HUGS)
#1-BFP 08-22-09 ~ M/C 08-31-09 at 5 weeks 6 days
#2-BFP 08-6-11 ~ Due 04/18 ~ born via c-section April 22, 2012
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Lots of thoughts and prayers. I hope you get some answers.