Update from yesterday.

alzi

1. My coworker apologized again this morning, gave me a big hug, and said she was thinking about it all night. I really hope this makes her hesitate before saying it again.

2. After my panic yesterday, I think my ear is ok ( that's what I was freaking over)

Thanks for all the kind words and support:) 

IamAli

Good on both accounts.

Floyd.B

yay for both of these things!

NaHoku

I bet she felt really dumb yesterday and that's why she was so defensive and I'm sure she'll think twice before using that phrase again.

I'm glad your ear is okay!

alzi

Floyd.B:

yay for both of these things!

hey- did you ever update about switching weekends for your trip?

annieu613

Yay on both counts!

JulesF84

I missed the OP but in glad things are resolving.

cvillebetrothed

excellent on both. 

PeachyKate

1. I am really glad that what you said made her think about her actions.  

2.  Good, good.  Are you still going to get it checked out?  

 

alzi

PeachyKate:

1. I am really glad that what you said made her think about her actions.  

2.  Good, good.  Are you still going to get it checked out?  

 

for number 2, it's already diagnosed. The person who would diagnose it or test it is an audiologist, so I've got that covered:) nothing would show up in testing though unless it become a full blown episode. And unfortunately, most of the symptoms are just subjectively perceived and not measurable. 

PeachyKate

alzigator:

PeachyKate:

1. I am really glad that what you said made her think about her actions.  

2.  Good, good.  Are you still going to get it checked out?  

 

for number 2, it's already diagnosed. The person who would diagnose it or test it is an audiologist, so I've got that covered:) nothing would show up in testing though unless it become a full blown episode. And unfortunately, most of the symptoms are just subjectively perceived and not measurable. 

Gotcha!  I wasn't sure if they could tell if you were getting ready to have a flare or not.     

salimoo

Yay! I'm glad things are looking better today.

+kizmet+

I think sometimes people get defensive when they feel like a tool after being "reprimanded" for doing something wrong.  It's good you said something and that she thought about it.  Let's hope she never says it again!

 

I'm glad your ear is okay!