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Re: Flameful for the day.
H has been away for work a lot recently. He got home after kids were in bed last night and he already left on another trip today. BUT I still took girls to school today so we could get in some sheet time, go to breakfast at fancy not kid friendly place where we talked about kids...NEVER! It was very very nice and we want to do this all the time!
No mommy guilt has to be flameful, right?
The need to blame someone/something after something like that is normal and it can also be aggravating.
I have to tell you, it is cold comfort to know who f*cked up in my dad's crash and to even HEAR it (because honestly, it can still make me mad), but what does bring comfort is knowing positive changes were made after the fact, lessons were learned and who knows how many other crashes were avoided.
Rather than canonize one of the teens, the community would be better off making a positive change from it.