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  • imageEmiIyJ:
    Is it hard to be so far from your families?  How often do you come back to the US? 

    The company pays to fly us back once a year.  When we were in Europe we'd go back more often because it's so much closer but the company wasn't paying for it.  I'll go twice this year.  Once just me this summer (OH and DC if anyone feels like a gtg) and once with H over Christmas and New Years.

    With Skype and Facetime it's not too difficult to be so far away.  I talk to most of my close family members multiple times a week and I text with my dad almost every day.  The hardest part is not being there as our nieces and nephews are growing up.  They go from being an infant to a toddler to speaking full sentences between visits and sometimes I feel like I'm really missing out. 

  • I just wanted to add that I think it's pretty odd about your H's work being controversial.  I'd be totally happy if my H had that job and we got to travel like that!  He's not pushing stuff onto people; it just seems like an odd thing to be a conversation stopper.  I know you don't care much, I just wanted to show some solidarity or whatever to counteract all the bad reactions you get.  Or maybe I'm just used to my friends who work at law firms and defend these companies.  Lol.

    Also, my H works for an oil company now, so I don't have too much room to point fingers.Wink

  • imageLittleMoxie:

    I just wanted to add that I think it's pretty odd about your H's work being controversial.  I'd be totally happy if my H had that job and we got to travel like that!  He's not pushing stuff onto people; it just seems like an odd thing to be a conversation stopper.  I know you don't care much, I just wanted to show some solidarity or whatever to counteract all the bad reactions you get.  Or maybe I'm just used to my friends who work at law firms and defend these companies.  Lol.

    Also, my H works for an oil company now, so I don't have too much room to point fingers.Wink

    The Insider is one of my very favorite movies.  It's obviously what comes to mind reading this thread.

  • When are we applying for Amazing Race? ;)
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  • When are you coming here so we can drink wine together?

    Where did you and your H meet?

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  • imagefrlcb:
    When are we applying for Amazing Race? ;)

    A quick google search tells me we missed the deadline by a day.  It looks like maybe it'll have to be for season 23? 

    <url>http://www.theamazingracecasting.com/apply</url&gt

  • imagePublius:

    imagefrlcb:
    When are we applying for Amazing Race? ;)

    A quick google search tells me we missed the deadline by a day.  It looks like maybe it'll have to be for season 23? 

    <url>http://www.theamazingracecasting.com/apply</url&gt

    Damn! Next time, seriously! 

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  • imageESF1:

    When are you coming here so we can drink wine together?

    Where did you and your H meet?

    -Here as in the US or San Francisco?  I'll be on the east coast this summer.  I am dying to get to Napa, so ASAP.

    -Where all normal human beings meet: a bar.  It was way back when I was in college and studying abroad in Prague.  It was the first night of the NCAA tournament and he payed to keep the bar open past 4 so I could watch Xavier play.  Anyone who extends a bar's hours is A-OK in my book. 

  • imagefrlcb:
    imagePublius:

    imagefrlcb:
    When are we applying for Amazing Race? ;)

    A quick google search tells me we missed the deadline by a day.  It looks like maybe it'll have to be for season 23? 

    <url>http://www.theamazingracecasting.com/apply</url&gt

    Damn! Next time, seriously! 

    Seriously.  I think we could make it in. 

  • imagePublius:
    imagefrlcb:
    imagePublius:

    imagefrlcb:
    When are we applying for Amazing Race? ;)

    A quick google search tells me we missed the deadline by a day.  It looks like maybe it'll have to be for season 23? 

    <url>http://www.theamazingracecasting.com/apply</url&gt

    Damn! Next time, seriously! 

    Seriously.  I think we could make it in. 

    Me too! 

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  • imagePublius:
    imageESF1:

    When are you coming here so we can drink wine together?

    Where did you and your H meet?

    -Here as in the US or San Francisco?  I'll be on the east coast this summer.  I am dying to get to Napa, so ASAP.

    -Where all normal human beings meet: a bar.  It was way back when I was in college and studying abroad in Prague.  It was the first night of the NCAA tournament and he payed to keep the bar open past 4 so I could watch Xavier play.  Anyone who extends a bar's hours is A-OK in my book. 

    Yes

    Is your H Czech?  

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  • imagefrlcb:
    When are we applying for Amazing Race? ;)

    OMG, I think you'd rock the socks off of the Race! If you make it, have them put "ladies who lunch" as your profession.

    And tell Phil I love him.
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  • imageESF1:
    Yes

    Is your H Czech?  

    He's an American but he's six years older than I am, so when I was finishing up college he was doing a two year international stint with his old company.

  • Not a question, but I didn't realize you also studied abroad in Prague! I just figured the only time you were there was when you had to live there for your H's job. I miss Prague.

    Oh wait, I do have a question - are you not going to be around for the Giants-Bengals game in Cincinnati on November 11th? :(

  • In American Embassys located off our soil (shich I assume they all are) are the employees all americans or do they hire locals to run the embassy on behalf of the americans?
  • image3sthecharm:
    In American Embassys located off our soil (shich I assume they all are) are the employees all americans or do they hire locals to run the embassy on behalf of the americans?

    I'm not Publius, but the answer is the employees of most embassies are a mix of diplomats, non diplomatic expatriates, military (All of these being US citizens and occasionally their spouses who get hired for random stuff) and host country nationals. It would be prohibitively expensive to staff all of the administrative and logistical/maintenance posts with Americans and honestly when it comes to things like ordering food from local suppliers a local who can remain the the post for 10 years will be more effective than someone from the US on a 2 year rotation.  

    In some cases--especially in hard to fill posts--you will get third country nationals. For example I know a few Africans who work for USAID in Iraq after beig employed by the agency in their home country.  

    "We tend to be patronizing about the poor in a very specific sense, which is that we tend to think,
  • imagemxolisi:

    image3sthecharm:
    In American Embassys located off our soil (shich I assume they all are) are the employees all americans or do they hire locals to run the embassy on behalf of the americans?

    I'm not Publius, but the answer is the employees of most embassies are a mix of diplomats, non diplomatic expatriates, military (All of these being US citizens and occasionally their spouses who get hired for random stuff) and host country nationals. It would be prohibitively expensive to staff all of the administrative and logistical/maintenance posts with Americans and honestly when it comes to things like ordering food from local suppliers a local who can remain the the post for 10 years will be more effective than someone from the US on a 2 year rotation.  

    In some cases--especially in hard to fill posts--you will get third country nationals. For example I know a few Africans who work for USAID in Iraq after beig employed by the agency in their home country.  

    Thank you! Very interesting. I asked becuase a friend from the Dominican sent money for her mothers application,and her own pregnancy/medical records etc to try and get her mom a travel visa for the birth of the grandbaby. The person who took the money  didnt even read the doctors letters or the information she presented ., Just her age and said you dont qualify. I was wondering if it was a us citizen reviewing the visa apps or  non us citizen.
  • image3sthecharm:
    imagemxolisi:

    image3sthecharm:
    In American Embassys located off our soil (shich I assume they all are) are the employees all americans or do they hire locals to run the embassy on behalf of the americans?

    I'm not Publius, but the answer is the employees of most embassies are a mix of diplomats, non diplomatic expatriates, military (All of these being US citizens and occasionally their spouses who get hired for random stuff) and host country nationals. It would be prohibitively expensive to staff all of the administrative and logistical/maintenance posts with Americans and honestly when it comes to things like ordering food from local suppliers a local who can remain the the post for 10 years will be more effective than someone from the US on a 2 year rotation.  

    In some cases--especially in hard to fill posts--you will get third country nationals. For example I know a few Africans who work for USAID in Iraq after beig employed by the agency in their home country.  

    Thank you! Very interesting. I asked becuase a friend from the Dominican sent money for her mothers application,and her own pregnancy/medical records etc to try and get her mom a travel visa for the birth of the grandbaby. The person who took the money  didnt even read the doctors letters or the information she presented ., Just her age and said you dont qualify. I was wondering if it was a us citizen reviewing the visa apps or  non us citizen.

    Only American consular officers do visa interviews. I'm not surprised it was denied. They probably didn't believe she would go back. I have friends all over the world that I cannot see frequently because they can't get US tourist visas. They are wealthy, educated, law abiding. But because they are from poor countries we don't believe them when they say they will return home so we take their money and deny hem again and again. I had a US Senator call the US Embassy in Dakar when inwas trying to get a friend to the US for my wedding. It didn't do a lick of good.  

    "We tend to be patronizing about the poor in a very specific sense, which is that we tend to think,
  • How'd you get so awesome?

    Romney-Portman 2012 ORGAN DONOR: DEAL WITH IT. :-) :-)
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