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Cheating dreams.

Last night I had a dream that I got in an elevator with one of my coworkers.  When the door closed we looked at each other and then all of a sudden started kissing.  It was VERY vivid.  It was like I was there, with my eyes closed, feeling every move.  We got to our floor, got off, and then parted ways with a knowing look.  Then later in the dream I was walking down a path and he came up behind me.  We both said, "That can't happen again" and then I woke up.

I feel so WEIRD today.  It's almost like I feel guilty for cheating!  I have ZERO feelings for this person other than "Hey you're a cool coworker!" so I have no idea where this is coming from.

He's out until Tuesday which I'm glad about.

I DON'T LIKE THIS FEELING.  

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Re: Cheating dreams.

  • Been there, done that.

    It's weird as hell. 

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  • I have  dreams like this all the time. That's probably bad, huh
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  • I go through periods of about a week at a time where I have a bunch of really inappropriate dreams about friends/acquaintances.  It's super weird and awkward as hell. 

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    Last night I had a dream that I got in an elevator with one of my coworkers.  When the door closed we looked at each other and then all of a sudden started kissing.  It was VERY vivid.  It was like I was there, with my eyes closed, feeling every move.  We got to our floor, GOT OFF, and then parted ways with a knowing look.  Then later in the dream I was walking down a path and he came up behind me.  We both said, "That can't happen again" and then I woke up.

    I feel so WEIRD today.  It's almost like I feel guilty for cheating!  I have ZERO feelings for this person other than "Hey you're a cool coworker!" so I have no idea where this is coming from.

    He's out until Tuesday which I'm glad about.

    I DON'T LIKE THIS FEELING.  

    i'm a 12 year old boy.  this made me giggle.

    i have cheating dreams all the time, but it is always with somebody from teh past and always the same guy.  i think i would be freaked out if it happened with somebody i saw every day 

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  • imagehuber22:

    Been there, done that.

    It's weird as hell. 

    YES YES YES.  If I'm going to have a hot steamy elevator makeout session why can't my brain make it be with DH???

    I'm just SO glad said coworker isn't here today.  That would make it even more weird.

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  • I had a few dreams about H cheating on me when we first moved in together. That wasn't a good feeling either.
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  • I had a dream like that last night.  I feel grossed out.

    Here's what it says on dreammoods.com:

    Adultery
    To dream that you commit adultery or have an affair signifies your sexual urges and desires that are longing to be expressed. Alternatively, it indicates self-betrayal of your subconscious. You may find yourself entangled in a situation that is not in your best interest, perhaps even illegal.?

    To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, highlights your insecurities and your fears of being abandoned. You feel that you are being taken for granted. You are lacking attention in the relationship or that he or she is being less affectionate. Alternatively, you feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.

    Cheating
    To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiance, or significant other suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, cheating dreams reflect the intensity of your sexual passion; you are exploring areas of your sexuality. In this scenario, the dream may actually serve as a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, if you are approaching your own wedding date, then it is not uncommon to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than your intended spouse. Most likely, such a dream represents the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse.
    To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are subconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truthful or is not fully committed in the relationship. To dream that your friend is being cheated on?indicates your subconscious dislike for his/her significant other. You think your friend deserves to be treated better. To dream that you are cheating at a game suggests that you are not being honest with yourself. You feel inadequate and insecure.

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  • imageFrkls:
    We got to our floor, GOT OFF, and then parted ways with a knowing look.

    i'm a 12 year old boy.  this made me giggle.

    OMG, haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.  Not what I meant at ALL.  :-)  Now I'm giggling like a 12 year old boy too.  The only thing that would make this story funnier is some farts.  :-)

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  • I dreamed once that I kissed my friend's dad.

    NASTY.  I couldn't look him in the eye for weeks.

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  • imagealzi:
    I have  dreams like this all the time. That's probably bad, huh

    Um, me too. Embarrassed

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