Same-Sex Households
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Baby talk
I know baby talk is usually on Wednesdays but this has been eating at me all weekend. Last week Jenn told me that one of her very best friends is pregnant. While I am happy for her, I am also devestated. I know that we have only done 2 rounds of IUI and that we are currently taking a break so that we could move to a larger apartment (one that would actually have room for a baby). It is still very difficult to see all my friends having babies and now hers too. I know that it is a jealousy thing. I can't help but sit here and worry about whether or not we will be able to get pregnant. It's a silly thing for me to think. There are no fertility issues on either side of my family and the only thing that the doctor has said might be a problem for me is my weight. We decided together that we would resume TTC efforts after the first of the year. I thought that it would be easier than this. How am I ever going to survive another 2 months? I am so impatient!
Re: Baby talk
I am really sorry. It's so hard to watch other couples move ahead. I think it's harder when you are on a break and don't even have a chance at a BFP. We are on a break after 7 failed cycles and a chemical pg. The break is harder than the negative tests!
I don't have a ton of great advice at handling breaks, I am not doing all that well myself. But, I do feel your pain and am sending you hugs and strength. It will be Janurary before you know it.