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Sexy time/ banging/ boning/ f*cking poll

Just saw a commercial for the show 7 days of sex that is premiering on lifetime. It made me think; it's been a long time since I've had sex 7 days in a row.

Eta: I'm not unhappy that we don't have sex 7 days a week... I'm happy with the amount that we do it for the most part. 

So are you happy with YOUR sex life? 

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Re: Sexy time/ banging/ boning/ f*cking poll

  • I would love more sex.  I would ADORE IT, however, if the fiance did not feel the need to never get to bed at a decent hour, and to be all butthurt if I go to bed before him.  If I'm finally getting into bed at 1am and have to be up at 730, I am.not.in.the.mood.
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  • i freaking hate the term sexy time. we are adults. we have sex. bang. bone. whatever.

    sexy time?

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  • We're not having as much as I want, but it's mainly because I've been working from home a lot lately and I also have school in the evenings.

    Plus, he wants to go to bed at 12-1am, and I'm just irritated that I would have to take time out of my sleep schedule for it.

    I try to manage it on the weekends, and it usually happens then, but overall I want it more than just then.

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  • imagealzi:

    i freaking hate the term sexy time. we are adults. we have sex. bang. bone. whatever.

    sexy time?

    I agree with this.  I hate that term.

    It sounds like something a 40-year-old virgin would say.  **shudder**

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  • No 

     I havent had sex for 13 weeks due to pelvic rest and have a lot of weeks ahead of me before i can start having sh!tty  post pardom sex.  yay!

  • We're still working out a bc method that works for us, thus the loooong dry spell.
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  • imagealzi:

    i freaking hate the term sexy time. we are adults. we have sex. bang. bone. whatever.

    sexy time?

    Sorry, I don't use this phrase to refer to sex, ever really.... I just randomly typed it in a joking way. 

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  • imagesakelp:
    imagealzi:

    i freaking hate the term sexy time. we are adults. we have sex. bang. bone. whatever.

    sexy time?

    Sorry, I don't use this phrase to refer to sex, ever really.... I just randomly typed it in a joking way. 

    whenever I see it on TN I assume pp are using it sarcastically (at least we do on my local board).  If you see this phrase on TB however, totally different story.

  • imagesakelp:
    imagealzi:

    i freaking hate the term sexy time. we are adults. we have sex. bang. bone. whatever.

    sexy time?

    Sorry, I don't use this phrase to refer to sex, ever really.... I just randomly typed it in a joking way. 

    i was complaining in general. not directed at you. no need to apologize lol

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  • I put SS. I am way pregnant right now, so I am happy with how things are most of the time and only have a few weeks here and there where I want more. Before, I wanted it a lot more, though. I don't want seven days in a row as a regular occurrence (I'm a woman, not a machine!), but I used to want it at least twice as often as we'd actually do it. Sometimes more. Who knows how things will be after the baby comes, though. I might be fighting H off of me with a chair like a lion tamer if we go back to how often we were doing it before TTC.

    ETA: I like the phrase "sexy time" only when said in a Borat voice.

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  • I'm very happy right now. I mean I usually am but these hormones amplify things. Sex post partum was awesome once Layla was about 4 months and sleeping a little better, plus my bigger boobs from nursing made me feel sexier. I think it's been so great because before that time I was uncomfortable doing it heavily pregnant and before that on pelvic rest, and before that we were TTC for about 2 yrs with a mc in between. Honestly sex wasn't the best once I was stressed from not concieving.

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  • I'm very happy right now. I mean I usually am but these hormones amplify things. Sex post partum was awesome once Layla was about 4 months and sleeping a little better, plus my bigger boobs from nursing made me feel sexier. I think it's been so great because before that time I was uncomfortable doing it heavily pregnant and before that on pelvic rest, and before that we were TTC for about 2 yrs with a mc in between. Honestly sex wasn't the best once I was stressed from not concieving Layla.

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  • I'm happy with our sex  life, but I do wish it could be more spontaneous and less planned. We don't live together, so we always have to specifically make time for it. It will be nice to live together and be able to do it at random.
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  • special snowflake here

    I feel like we should have sex more often, but I don't really wish for it or miss it.  I am fairly certain this is due to hormonal contraceptives.  I have NO sex drive. 

    I also lead a stressful/hectic life.  It is very challenging to wind down and even have interest. 

    All that said, we probably have sex like once a week or maybe twice so that is not so bad I suppose. 

  • My vag could not handle 7 days of sex.  

    If I had a less irritable vag then I could have sex more than every other day, not that it is always that often but it could be. 

    That's all. 

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  • SS

    I hope when I get back that we are into our 4-5 times a week groove, but I have been surviving for months without and am doing ok (except for the 2 weeks when H came to visit and we got it on quite a bit).  

  • Special Snowflake-ish.

    My vajay is apparently broken. We've spent the past two years trying to figure out why sex is so painful for me (after the fact, not during). I'm actually going to a new specialist in a couple of weeks who had better be able to help, because I'm tired of having to choose between always being in a ridiculous amount of pain or not having sex.

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