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I just found out that J's teenage daughter's best friend just committed suicide :-(
He's been trying to reach her, but she's not answering her phone. I told him that she'd call him when she could, that most likely she was just wrapped up with their group of friends dealing with their grief together just because they all knew her and could feel closer to her that way.
God. I wish I was in her life right now, because I lost someone very close to me from suicide as well, and she's going to need someone who's been through it.
I feel so sad for everyone today.

Re: Oh nooo :-(
I am so sorry! It sounds like she is in the company that she needs to be in at the moment.
I lost one of my best friend in college to suicide, it happened the day before we were suppose to meet up to hang out together so there were a lot of mixed feelings.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
That's such a hard thing to deal with.
I felt guilt. I still feel guilt. She helped me through the worst day of my depression when I wouldn't have made it alone. I know that there was nothing I could have done ...but maybe there was.