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I'm going to talk about friends selling stuff again

If your friends sell any of the crap that you have to throw or attend parties for, do you attend or host a party just because they are your friends?  My friend started doing this vacation deal where she throws parties to try to sell it.  She's the type that would feel like her friends have an obligation to attend just because she's doing it.  I know she would attend or throw a party for me if I were selling, but I don't do that sh!t because I don't want to put myself or anyone else in an ackward position.

 

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  • I usually just say I can't, or have other plans if they are hosting a party, and when I'm asked I just say I don't have the space to host (which is true right now). 
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  • I've had various friends ask me to, but I just say no.  Sometimes they are annoyed by my refusal, but eff it.  Those parties suck.

    The only party I will attend is Tastefully Simple because I love some of that stuff and there's free food.   

  • I just went to one (31) and bought a bag. She has been selling it for a few years now and this is the first one I went to b/c a mutual friend had it at her house. I do not feel obligated to host a party since I have 2 small kids and a giant dog. I don't need to stress myself out trying to have a bunch of people here.
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    I just got an email this afternoon from H's little cousin, who has apparently started selling Pure Romance crap. Look, there is no f*cking way I am sitting through a vibrator demonstration with a relative that I have known since she was 12 and that I have to spend every Christmas dinner with at grandma's house. No. F*cking. Way.
  • No, I haven't. I have attended parties and bought some stuff, mostly just Scentsy, because I love it, some godawful jewelry that I'll never buy again and some Mary Kay, which I won't be buying again.

    If it were a really close friend and I liked the product, I would probably host a party. But I'm at the point now that if it's something I no longer use or aren't interested in, forget it.  I'm done with that crap.

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  • I say no.  I don't have enough friends who would be interested enough to attend one of those so it is pointless.
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  • I hosted one, one time. Arbonne. That is the only stuff I ever bought, because I got such a good discount.

    I am just not into it. My only friends/family members who sell stuff are SAHMs and I just tell them I don't have the time and they are understanding. I don't, and this gets me off the hook.

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  • No.  I've actually acquired a reputation among friends and family as someone who will not attend sales pitch "parties".  The invites I get these days are always phrased like "I didn't want you to hear about it and think you were snubbed, so I have a Tastefully Pampered Candles party coming up that you're welcome to attend but I know you won't."
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  • No, because that shiit is annoying. I've unfriended several people who push their Lia Sophia/Pampered Chef/uglyass 31 bags crapola.

     

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  • I detest those parties.  My SIL, her mother, and her sister each have one about every 6 months, so between the 3 of them there is one about every other month.  Fortunately, I live two hours away, but my mother goes to everyone and buys that overpriced crap.  I teach her to just say no but she is afraid of hurting someones feeings.
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      I teach her to just say no but she is afraid of hurting someones feeings.

    I'd rather hurt feelings than hurt my wallet. 

    but I'm also a totalbitch, so there's that.

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  • No, I always decline these invites. I don't give a reason for declining.
  • I would do to Tastefully Simple because I like their stuff.  Otherwise I avoid those parties like the plague.
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  • imagec_joy:
    I just got an email this afternoon from H's little cousin, who has apparently started selling Pure Romance crap. Look, there is no f*cking way I am sitting through a vibrator demonstration with a relative that I have known since she was 12 and that I have to spend every Christmas dinner with at grandma's house. No. F*cking. Way.

    I got a text from my little sister and she told me she's having a PR party at her house coincidentally the same Saturday I'm going to be visting my mom.  I suspect the timing is not a coincidence.  I suspect she wants to me to go even though she didn't ask me to in her text.

    There's no way I'm going to that party. I don't care if she tells me that it'll be fun--I ain't a'goin'. 

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  • I've been to one Pure Romance party.  It was years ago and I was still holding onto my V-card so I was the innocent doe-eyed girl in a room full of much more experienced college women who were drunk after tailgating all day.  It was NOT fun.  I felt guilted into buying something so I got some lame-o massage oil that smelled g-r-o-s-s and it sat in my bathroom cabinet until I finally threw it away.

     

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