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recommended The Fault in Their Stars?
I hope you write/act in/invent/solve/cure some amazing thing and when you're up there on stage accepting your Pulizer/Oscar/Emmy/Tony/Nobel Prize you get a raging yeast infection and have to chew on your own tongue in the middle of your speech to keep from clawing at your vagina on national television.
Then you will know how I felt, sobbing on the bus home today.

Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
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I recommended it.
Not sure if I'm the one who recommended it for you... but if I was, I am truly sorry.
If it's any comfort, I sobbed my eyes out too.
jeh - it's a YA book, but it doesn't read that way. It's about teenagers living with cancer and the relationship between two of them in particular.
DON'T. I mean, I'm glad I did. It was fantastic and moving and well-written and lovely.
But I cried BUCKETS. It's one of those books I'm so glad I read, but also kind of wish I'd never known it existed.
Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
I would like to take this opportunity to say I should have heeded your warning re: the awfulness to come with this sore throat. :-( you nailed it.
Also, I will not be reading that book!
Oh no! Yeah, it took both of us down pretty hard here. But it was over fairly quickly, so if you're not already feeling better, you should be soon! My timeline was kind of like this:
Sat- Wake up with sore throat, spend day battling what I thought were allergies. By that night, shivering violently and achy all over
Sunday- Useless. All day. Useless.
Monday- Consider going to work late. Don't make it. Spend most of day useless and napping
Tuesday- Go back to work. Wiped out by commute in. Try to keep it together but spend most of the day in a fevery fog. Leave around 3, completely spent.
Wednesday- Go to work normal time, feel 98% better
Since then, it's just been this cough, but even that seems to be going away finally. Yesterday was the worst of it. My lungs were so itchy and swollen and tight feeling.
Hope yours passes soon!
Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.