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s/o i feel like ML would not be surprised if i got divorced.
isn't that weird?!?!? between all of the church stuff, living arrangements stuff, dsd stuff, inlaws stuff that i vent about, i feel like you guys would be like "about effing time!!" if i ever announced that we were splitting.
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Re: s/o i feel like ML would not be surprised if i got divorced.
Eh, I don't know if I would be "its about time," but you do put up with a lot and its admirable.
I think a lot of us feel like no one likes our DHs. Let's face it, we don't always portray them in the best possible light.
No. No no no no. You are nowhere even near the list I have in my head.
Updated September 2012.
You are nowhere near my list of "nesties whose split up would not shock me."
As someone else here said, we all put up with things in our relationships that otheres here would WTF about. Doesn't mean they are not otherwise great partners.
I have always thought you had a good relationship so I would be shocked. And I am a avid reader of your posts so I don't think I would miss something lol.
I agree. There's a difference.
This.
I totally agree with this. You guys seem solid, even if some circumstances are challenging.
Perhaps. Not to the degree of earrings under the bed and whatnot, but it does seem like a lot of hassle for very little reward.
I'd play sad, "oh damn, I really did love you but the circumstances of life did us in" music for you instead of GnR.
How many Nest dollars to move this list from your head to this post?
"As of page 2 this might be the most boring argument ever. It's making me long for Rape Day." - Mouse
blue, I wouldn't say bad so much as sad.
And Freckles, I'd be very surprised. However, I think your situation is tough putting aside any marital differences. Just being the wife of a pastor is more than I can imagine having to deal with. Talk about living in a fish bowl with people just waiting to pounce and judge. My aunt is a pastor's wife so I hear a lot about how hard it can be.
I love you to death, Kuus, but I am fairly confident that no man is good enough for any ML'er in your eyes. I don't know that I have heard a glowing endorsement for any of them from you yet! :-)
nah. as a fellow complainer, i know the difference between someone who just likes to get it out there sometimes, and someone whose in a bad spot. you seem like the former, not the later.
also, i'm with fenton.
I've never thought this about you frkls.
Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
Whenever I hear Chesh's IRL name I think "Scissor" --MontereyBride
To be fair, I don't think there's anything wrong with Pastor Frkls. I just think the situation with the ex-wife is way too much stress on top of everything being a pastor's wife entails, such that I wouldn't be too shocked if even the best marriages couldn't withstand it permanently.
And I did give Mr. Tamb with all his melodramatic weirdness my stamp of approval.
I try to come up with witty things to say, then I get distracted by that ridiculously cute pic you have there :-)
Reminds me of the joke:
Man gets home, his wife is hopping up and down. "Ralph! Pack your bags! We won the lottery!". Ralph replies "OMG! Where are we going?" Wife says "I don't know where YOU'RE going; just get out".
THAT IS NOT FIGHTING FAIR! Lol :-)
:-)