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Blueyes623
Joined on 05-01-20121 Posts15 Points
I'm new here-longHi ladies. I'm new here and wanted to introduce myself and possibly get some advice. I'm 30 years old, i have a great career and have been married for 9 months( no kids). My husband has post traumatic stress disorder and anger issues related to his childhood. He is emotionally abusive and quickly escalates to become aggressive to others. He is in therapy and seeing a psychiatrist and on meds as well. He is not physically abusive, but verbally is just as difficult. He has also had multiple physical fights with random people over road rage, etc but has never been arrested. I thought with the appropriate help, he could improve and gain more control over his anger. Honestly, I'm very unhappy, depressed and anxious. I have to walk on eggshells and it still does not resolve the issues. I do love him and also feel sorry that he has all these issues--I guess that's why I've stayed this long.I'm contemplating divorce. I just can't stand to be so unhappy and I'm scared to have children because I think his emotional issues are unhealthy. I'm scared of being a "failure" at marriage. I guess I am embarrassed that "a girl like me" has gotten into a "situation" like this. Advice is appreciated..
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I'm new here- xp trouble in paradise
Blueyes623Joined on 05-01-20121 Posts15 PointsI'm new here-longHi ladies. I'm new here and wanted to introduce myself and possibly get some advice. I'm 30 years old, i have a great career and have been married for 9 months( no kids). My husband has post traumatic stress disorder and anger issues related to his childhood. He is emotionally abusive and quickly escalates to become aggressive to others. He is in therapy and seeing a psychiatrist and on meds as well. He is not physically abusive, but verbally is just as difficult. He has also had multiple physical fights with random people over road rage, etc but has never been arrested. I thought with the appropriate help, he could improve and gain more control over his anger. Honestly, I'm very unhappy, depressed and anxious. I have to walk on eggshells and it still does not resolve the issues. I do love him and also feel sorry that he has all these issues--I guess that's why I've stayed this long.I'm contemplating divorce. I just can't stand to be so unhappy and I'm scared to have children because I think his emotional issues are unhealthy. I'm scared of being a "failure" at marriage. I guess I am embarrassed that "a girl like me" has gotten into a "situation" like this. Advice is appreciated..
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Re: I'm new here- xp trouble in paradise
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.