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Re: Thanks everyone
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You are a great person for taking all of this on. Can you take some time off to rejuvenate?
Special Ed is a terribly difficult job. I initially majored in it, saw how emotionally exhausting it would be, and ultimately changed to Social Work.
I give you a hell of a lot of credit for doing what you do. I'm sorry you don't have the support you need, but I hope you know just how important you are in these kids' lives.
That said... you have to make sure you're taking care of yourself too.
I don't know what the "right" answer is for you, but I just wanted to give you a round of applause (and a hug) for being awesome.
thanks girls, i appreciate it. I love my job and the kids, but i just really feel like i need a break. I just finished apa's and ieps so i think that put me ove rthe edge. I wish i could take off, BUT i do have a little break end of june. I work 12 months a year bc all my students qualify for ESY , which i am extremely grateful for.
sometimes i just feel like i could be doing more for my "lower" students....guess i put a lot of pressure on myself.
Wine. SOunds great
I usually only lurk on here but I couldn't read this and not post.
As the daughter of a special ed teacher (hearing/speech impairments) and the aunt of a very very special needs little boy, I can only say THANK YOU so much for all that you do!
Allow yourself to feel burnt out and frustrated - it is normal and human - but then remind yourslef of the extraordinary things you do to show those kids love, kindness, acceptance and understanding every day. They may not get it at home, but for the hours that they are in your classroom, they do.
It takes an incredibly strong and determined person to do what you do - and if the parents and family of your students don't show their appreciation, please know that there people out there that do appreciate your work and are so grateful you are doing what you do.
First, thank you for what you do. It takes a very special person and you are very much needed.
And, it's understandable to be burnt out. Do the best you can
formerly VXS
I'm so sorry you are having a rough time.
If it makes you feel any better, think of all the good you are doing for those children. When you are down and burnt out, try to remember that because of you, those kids have some kind of a chance to learn. They aren't getting attention at home which is probably why they are so clingy with you.
I have a special needs child and her teachers and therapists mean the world to me. I can't imagine how hard it must be dealing with parents who don't have the ability to contribute to the learning process.