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I was reminded yesterday of why I got a divorce

In packing to move out of state (YAY!!!!!!!!) I came across some of XH's stuff that I felt was only right to get back to him.  It was his college ring (though I WAS tempted to sell it for the gold), his childhood teddy bear, pictures of his HS and college graduation, etc..  So I sent it with my stepmom to keep at the bank she works at so he could just swing by and get it and I didn't have to pay to ship it, or have to see him.  So I sent him a text yesterday letting him know it was there.  He immediately started on his passive agressive BS that he did when we were married.  He also felt the need to keep talking about his new wife and the baby they have on the way.  I said congrats, but I wasn't trying to engage in any convo.  It was just annoying.  All I told him was that I was moving and that I was really happy.  He doesn't deserve details.  I then texted my stepmom and asked her not to tell him anything either.  And I *might* have forgotten to mention the baby thing to her.  I want him to see that she's surprised and that I didn't run off and tell everyone.  Well, except everyone on the internet.  LOL.

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Re: I was reminded yesterday of why I got a divorce

  • OMG, I'm so sorry!  What a douchebag to try to rub his new life in your face.  Way to go for not giving him any details on your situation.  Are you finally moving to MI?
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  • Sounds like you handled it just the right way!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic You gotta get spanked by a lot of frogs...
  • imagehainesherway:
    OMG, I'm so sorry!  What a douchebag to try to rub his new life in your face.  Way to go for not giving him any details on your situation.  Are you finally moving to MI?

    Yes ma'am!!  Movers come to my house one week from today!!  Woohoo!!

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  • This is just reinforcement that you make the right decision. Good luck moving Cool
  • imagestartingover2010:

    imagehainesherway:
    OMG, I'm so sorry!  What a douchebag to try to rub his new life in your face.  Way to go for not giving him any details on your situation.  Are you finally moving to MI?

    Yes ma'am!!  Movers come to my house one week from today!!  Woohoo!!



    Woohoo! What part of the state?
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  • YAY for moving in a week!!!

     

     

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