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More sex talk/poll: what do you prefer?

A guy who has impressive staying power? A guy who can make a quick recovery for multiple sack sessions? Your guy does both? It's been so long since you got laid your hoo has cobwebs? There's an answer for everyone![Poll]
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Re: More sex talk/poll: what do you prefer?

  • This is what we prefer, not what we have immediate access to, right?
    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • imageMuddled:
    This is what we prefer, not what we have immediate access to, right?

    I wonder the same since there is an option that refers to your current SO...

    - namaste mothafockaaaas - image
  • I feel like I can't vote. My H has great staying power, but doesn't recover well. I would rather have a happier medium between the two.
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I answered for what I prefer and this woman does not like to risk dryness. I am assuming staying power to be on the closer-to-an-hour side. Ouch!

    Aaaaand this is why a younger man can be fun.

    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • imageMuddled:
    This is what we prefer, not what we have immediate access to, right?

    Yes, the options past the first 2 are all tongue-in-cheek, lol

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  • I don't like it to last very long.  That just sounds like a recipe for chafing to me.  But multiple sessions would be nice, probably.  I've never had that.
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  • I care more about a man's ability to orally or manually pleasure me than if his d!ck can go for hours.  Being pounded on for 45 minutes is boring!
  • I don't care how long it takes as long as it's good and I get off...where is this option?


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  • Oral does practically nothing for me, I'm too sensitive for it and need penetration to really get a good orgasm.

    I prefer quick recoup because I climax quickly if done right and prefer to go again soon after rather than going and going and going forever.

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  • imageSweetCuppinCakes:

    Oral does practically nothing for me, I'm too sensitive for it and need penetration to really get a good orgasm.

    I am the exact opposite, I can't O during sex unless I have vibe stimulation at the same time. LAME. Luckily MH is not an assbag so he always gets me off before we do it.

    - namaste mothafockaaaas - image
  • imageBeebeeEater:
    imageSweetCuppinCakes:

    Oral does practically nothing for me, I'm too sensitive for it and need penetration to really get a good orgasm.

    I am the exact opposite, I can't O during sex unless I have vibe stimulation at the same time. LAME. Luckily MH is not an assbag so he always gets me off before we do it.

    Me too.  Either oral or vibe.  Digitally, on rare occasions.

     

    Look with your special eyes.
  • A good cervix pounding does it for me every time. Yes

     

    ETA  Confession: Between all the STF talk, listening to Mumford and Sons while fantasizing about Marcus Mumford doing terrible dirty things to me, and ovulating.... I'm ready to go violently abuse myself in the bathroom...  Embarrassed

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  • imageBeebeeEater:
    imageSweetCuppinCakes:

    Oral does practically nothing for me, I'm too sensitive for it and need penetration to really get a good orgasm.

    I am the exact opposite, I can't O during sex unless I have vibe stimulation at the same time. LAME. Luckily MH is not an assbag so he always gets me off before we do it.

     

    I wouldn't call this lame.  Vibe during sex is mind-blowingly awesome.

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  • imageSweetCuppinCakes:

    A good cervix pounding does it for me every time. Yes

     

    ETA  Confession: Between all the STF talk, listening to Mumford and Sons while fantasizing about Marcus Mumford doing terrible dirty things to me, and ovulating.... I'm ready to go violently abuse myself in the bathroom...  Embarrassed

     

    Uh, this is STF, right?

    Confession: I may have done something similar last week.

    Look with your special eyes.
  • *cough* I may or may not have an adult toy residing in my purse at this moment for this very reason...
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  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    imageBeebeeEater:
    imageSweetCuppinCakes:

    Oral does practically nothing for me, I'm too sensitive for it and need penetration to really get a good orgasm.

    I am the exact opposite, I can't O during sex unless I have vibe stimulation at the same time. LAME. Luckily MH is not an assbag so he always gets me off before we do it.

     

    I wouldn't call this lame.  Vibe during sex is mind-blowingly awesome.

    Oh I agree. The lame part is that I can't O during sex. It bums me out big time. There are people who aren't that into sex who can O during sex. I'm a total hor and I can't. wtf!??

    - namaste mothafockaaaas - image
  • BBE is making me feel bad about being able to O so easily!

    Edit: Also, lasting a long time is fun when you're all pudding-y and having multiple Os.

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  • imagePartiallySunny:

    BBE is making me feel bad about being able to O so easily!

    Edit: Also, lasting a long time is fun when you're all pudding-y and having multiple Os.

    I need to second this. My current record is 4 in a session. H needs me to either go first or at the same time as him or he feels incredibly guilty. It nice. We've had the simultaneous O down for a while. But we've also been doing this for about 11 years now (omg). 

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