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Also - people taking pictures of your kid follow-up.

Oddly, as this was just talked about this week. This happened to us yesterday.

TWO people took pictures of L in her dress as we were running around the park. They were older, probably around 55ish. One male, one female. They both commented about how very adorable she was and then took a picture. One asked, one did not.

It was odd.

I wasn't sure how to respond.  

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Re: Also - people taking pictures of your kid follow-up.

  • I think this is strange. I don't understand wanting pictures of other people's children, unless you know them.

    On a related note, I think a lot of people (not necessarily you) feel like it's okay to travel internationally and take pictures of kids or even adults in other countries. You see people come back from travels all the time with photos of other people's kids, or people going about their daily business. It irritates me, especially because I think some of the same people who take these pictures would be very uncomfortable if someone was visiting here and took pictures of their kids.

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  • Yes, that is very true. I've wanted to take pictures before but never wanted to ask, so I didn't.

     

    I had someone in Madrid ask to take a picture of L and I one night in Madrid. I had her wrapped in my moby and then my coat over us both. He was like a real photographer so I let him.


    The two from yesterday were both Americans. I got the impression that they both just wanted to go home and shame their kids into giving them a grandchild so they could buy them a similar dress.  

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  • LOL @ shaming their kids into giving them grandkids. That could be true!
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  • +SMACE++SMACE+ member

    I asked someone the other day bc her daughter and x were holding hands, walking around and being so cute at the splash pad. I asked the mom if I could take a picture of the two holding hands and told her that it would not be uploaded anywhere online. I just thought itd make for a cute picture. 

    I bet that's weird, but I didn't know what else to do.  

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  • But, SMACE, that's different because your kid was in the picture.
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  • +SMACE++SMACE+ member
    That's pretty much how I rationalized it, lol. And the pics didn't even come out. Bummer. 
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  • I'll admit, I've had to check myself at the park when L is playing really cute with someone. 

    But I've never had the urge to take a picture of a strangers kid randomly.  

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  • I haven't really come across random stranger taking pics of C, but we did have a photographer chase us down on the street the other day. He said he was from the newspaper, and now I'm waiting to see an article.  Funny, the OP showed up that day about strangers and photography of kids - made me think I should have gotten more credentials from him.  lol. I'm sure it's fine, it's just funny how ML discussions creep into life.  
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    I must have missed that thread, but a couple years ago we went to the Halloween thing they have at the mall here, and we stopped at a bench so I could take pictures of Will in his costume. Some Asian woman ran up, took several rapid-fire photos of him before we could stop her and ran off.

    DH and I looked at each other like, WTMF just happened?!?

    I was super weirded out by that, and still am.

    I like privacy. A lot.
  • imagetdkandcjc:
    I haven't really come across random stranger taking pics of C, but we did have a photographer chase us down on the street the other day. He said he was from the newspaper, and now I'm waiting to see an article.  Funny, the OP showed up that day about strangers and photography of kids - made me think I should have gotten more credentials from him.  lol. I'm sure it's fine, it's just funny how ML discussions creep into life.  

    Your sig pic is the freaking cutest thing EVER...esp in that outfit.

  • :) thanks leon!  The photo is a cpl weeks old, but is cracking me up.  Actually, took it the night we got back from Australia. She's currently walking herself around to various furniture and cracking herself up. She should be taking a nap but we're ahving some issues w/ that today.
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