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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
So much changes in a year
I'm still FB friends with the sister of a guy I dated last year. I saw on her FB status that he's getting married tomorrow (a Tuesday of all days??). They are also expecting a baby that's due in August.
I had dated this guy BRIEFLY and in that time of about a month he was already talking marriage. Then, apparently he freaked himself out so much that he broke things off. At the time I was upset but in hindsight I was so relieved.
It's so funny to think of how much can change in a year. It also shows how much of a better place I am in now. If someone talked to today about marriage when we'd been dating less than a month it would send me packing in a hot minute.
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Re: So much changes in a year
That's crazy! This guy that I dated in November I heard got married again (for the third time) in January! And he's only 37 and just got divorced last January...
When I think of where I was this time last year, you are right it is crazy how much can change in a year
Good for you!
Personally, I am not yet there but I am definitely learning to pick-up red flags more quickly than I used to. I am proud of myself and keep reminding myself to never stop learning and taking everything that I have to go through as lessons to become a stronger and hopefully wiser person.
I'm just glad to be out of the situation, even though I remember feeling so devastated that he broke up with me. I even created a post on here complaining about it and everyone basically said it was CRAZY to think that way after such a short amount of time. Which is exactly the advice I'd give to someone who posted that sort of thing.
I wish him the best and really hope that things work out, especially since they are having a baby.