talked to my mom (if you care)

sakelp

it went very well. she was supportive and made me feel better. She said things like "don't be depressed... i know this isn't the greatest timing, but it could be worse." and "let me know if you need ANYTHING" and things of that nature. I told her to tell my dad, but neither of them are to tell ANYONE else. And I told her I'm not ready to be happy about it yet. She said she understood, but that she was happy for me anyway.

I really love her.  

MontereyBride

(((sakelp)))

spedrunner

aweee thats great, having support is very helpful!  

 I had a mc a few years ago, i was upset when i found out i was preg but after i mc'd i was really depressed and sad......at least your "oops" baby was made in a "hot and sexy" kinda way   

Pseudonim

Of course I care. I didn't get time to post earlier, but many hugs are coming you way.

Tambcat

I'm glad you talked to her and that she took it well and was supportive.

jln14

hopefully that's a little relief off of your shoulders and something else to not worry about along with other things

Kit30

That's really good.  I hope you start to feel better about this soon.

((hugs)) 

BABisme

She sounds wonderful.

I'm glad you are getting some emotional support

margotmacomber

That's great.  And hugs to you.

CurlyQ284

Im glad she was so supportive!

PeachyKate

This is great news, I am glad she was so supportive.

MKESweetie

I'm so happy that she was supportive for you.

Sue_sue

((hugs)) I am so glad you talked to her. Moms are the best.

alzi

i didn't get to post earlier - so first of all congrats! i'm glad you got support from your mother, and take all the time you need to adjust to the idea of being pregnant. i'm sure i'm going to freak out when it happens even though i'll be trying..

JanieJones

She sounds like a nice mom.  You were so worried about judgement, but I bet she's secretly dying of excitement to be a grandma.

MrsBeagle

I didn't post earlier, but I'm glad your mom is supportive.

There's no right or wrong way to feel about this, but we're behind you 100%.

:::hugs::: 

sakelp

Thank You All So Much!

saraandmichael

i surmise that you're pregnant?

i'm glad that you spoke with your mom and that you are feeling a bit better about it. sorry your baby won't be asian

sakelp

saraandmichael:

i surmise that you're pregnant?

i'm glad that you spoke with your mom and that you are feeling a bit better about it. sorry your baby won't be asian

thanks for the condolences. 

Stellasmom

Aw. Your Mom rocks. 

saraandmichael

sakelp:

saraandmichael:

i surmise that you're pregnant?

i'm glad that you spoke with your mom and that you are feeling a bit better about it. sorry your baby won't be asian

thanks for the condolences. 

i was hoping that it put a little smile on your face.

if it didn't, then you can smack me.

Amy in AR

hey - I'm a lurker but had to pop in 

 This was EXACTLY me when I got pg - DH and I wanted to be post 30 at least before talking about kids. I felt like my parent's would be 'disappointed' in me - I felt like I was a 16 year old kid when really I was 25 and had been married a year and a half. Just like your mom, mine was really supportive and excited about the baby once I got the nerve to tell her. (my parents were older parents as well) 

I had days where I would just sob to my DH about being pg (he quickly learned if he got me to eat something it calmed me down, I was a mean hungry pg lady). Anyways, just wanted you to know someone else that has been there. 

I put off telling my family/friends for a really long time, I wish I had let them know sooner, they were great.  

Hang in there, it gets better - I love being a mom, despite the early onset  

Marle

sakelp:

it went very well. she was supportive and made me feel better. She said things like "don't be depressed... i know this isn't the greatest timing, but it could be worse." and "let me know if you need ANYTHING" and things of that nature. I told her to tell my dad, but neither of them are to tell ANYONE else. And I told her I'm not ready to be happy about it yet. She said she understood, but that she was happy for me anyway.

I really love her.  

awww see? This time I feel good saying "I told you so".