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Is Anther's anxiety like Nu's breast lump?

I had not focused on her prior to today's crippling 5-K. 
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Re: Is Anther's anxiety like Nu's breast lump?

  • +Elle++Elle+ member
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    Oh, and also? How anyone worked up the energy to flame sakelp on a day overflowing with Anther and a Special McNasty Sighting I do not understand. So much bounty today!!!
  • really?

    crippling 5k.

    Not what I said at all.  

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  • +Elle++Elle+ member
    Third Anniversary
    imageAppleBear:

    Apples and oranges, anyone?


    OK, to be fair, your breast lump apparently turned out to be nothing. And the anxiety is clearly something.  

  • i am sad i had school today and missed some good dramz.
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  • +SMACE++SMACE+ member
    imageantherfosh:

    really?

    crippling 5k.

    Not what I said at all.  

    Well, you said you were crippled b/c you weren't moving well. people inferred it was from your 5k.

     

    image nicoleabrock:
    image antherfosh:

    He will be gone for a week. I am crippled. Life is crap. 

    You sound co-dependent and possibly depressed.  Have you thought of speaking to a therapist?  This is not a normal response to something like this.

     

    hahaha. Not crippled because he is gone. Physically! I cant move well! I wanted to be waited on! :p 

     

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  • image+SMACE+:
    imageantherfosh:

    really?

    crippling 5k.

    Not what I said at all.  

    Well, you said you were crippled b/c you weren't moving well. people inferred it was from your 5k.

    Like I said earlier. I am sorry that is how it is inferred. O well  

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  • +Elle++Elle+ member
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    imageantherfosh:
    image+SMACE+:
    imageantherfosh:

    really?

    crippling 5k.

    Not what I said at all.  

    Well, you said you were crippled b/c you weren't moving well. people inferred it was from your 5k.

    Like I said earlier. I am sorry that is how it is inferred. O well  

    That is what you said!  You didn't imply it was from the 5K. You expressly said it was.  Go play with Pippy. I think you are birds of a feather. 

  • The *best* thing I got from therapy was learning that I WAS codependent.  It's easy to be like, "Nah, I'm not!"

    Truth is, a lot of people are...and it's hard to realize.

    http://www.amazon.com/Codependent-No-More-Controlling-Yourself/dp/0894864025/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1336443434&sr=8-1

    Therapy.  And this book.  Yep!

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  • Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 
    yeah, there she was ... like disco lemonade ...
  • Maybe I am thinking that codependency is something different. I read the first line of the back of that book and was like CRAP
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  • imageRexManningDay:
    Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 

     

    everyone is writing it wrong it is another fosh.  

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  • image+Elle+:
    imageantherfosh:
    image+SMACE+:
    imageantherfosh:

    really?

    crippling 5k.

    Not what I said at all.  

    Well, you said you were crippled b/c you weren't moving well. people inferred it was from your 5k.

    Like I said earlier. I am sorry that is how it is inferred. O well  

    That is what you said!  You didn't imply it was from the 5K. You expressly said it was.  Go play with Pippy. I think you are birds of a feather. 

    Sits beside Elle with popcorn.. 

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  • imageantherfosh:

    imageRexManningDay:
    Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 

     

    everyone is writing it wrong it is another fosh.  

    Eh? 

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  • The best way I've had it defined to me was that I was making my relationship more important than myself/my own well-being.
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  • imagewanderlust2006:
    imageantherfosh:

    imageRexManningDay:
    Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 

     

    everyone is writing it wrong it is another fosh.  

    Eh? 

    She said she thought it was another fosh... and then saw anther and thought antler i was telling her she was right my name is another fosh  

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  • imageVaaaJeana:
    The best way I've had it defined to me was that I was making my relationship more important than myself/my own well-being.

     

    were you like that even out of the relationship? 

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  • imagewanderlust2006:
    imageantherfosh:

    imageRexManningDay:
    Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 

     

    everyone is writing it wrong it is another fosh.  

    Eh? 

    Yeah it's totally Anther. Unless there are two of you?

    yeah, there she was ... like disco lemonade ...
  • imagewanderlust2006:
    imageantherfosh:

    imageRexManningDay:
    Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 

     

    everyone is writing it wrong it is another fosh.  

    Eh? 

    I keep reading and re-reading but I don't see the difference either 

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  • imageantherfosh:

    imageVaaaJeana:
    The best way I've had it defined to me was that I was making my relationship more important than myself/my own well-being.

     

    were you like that even out of the relationship? 

    I had a big problem putting everyone else first.  Huge problem.

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  • imageantherfosh:

    imageRexManningDay:
    Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 

     

    everyone is writing it wrong it is another fosh.  

    Uh, did you spell your own SN wrong, then?

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  • imageantherfosh:
    imagewanderlust2006:
    imageantherfosh:

    imageRexManningDay:
    Anther.  Huh. Until you wrote it low that I've been saying 'Another Fosh' in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about antlers ... 

     

    everyone is writing it wrong it is another fosh.  

    Eh? 

    She said she thought it was another fosh... and then saw anther and thought antler i was telling her she was right my name is another fosh  

    Strange, on my screen it says "antherfosh" Confused

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  • I was saying anther = another not antler. 
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  • imageantherfosh:
    I was saying anther = another not antler. 

    Are you drunk or just not very smart?

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  • imageantherfosh:
    I was saying anther = another not antler. 

    was the screen name another fosh already taken?  I can't imagine this was a hugely popular name.

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  • It doesnt matter. Why does every word I type looked at under a flipping microscope. 
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  • +SMACE++SMACE+ member

    imageantherfosh:
    I was saying anther = another not antler. 

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    Are you high? Am I high? who wrote antler?  I've been seeing it as 'anther'

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  • imagedowagercountess:
    Wtf is a fosh?

     

    its nothing. It is an inside thing that happened at my wedding.  

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  • imagedowagercountess:
    Wtf is a fosh?

    Thank you.

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