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Bad sex?

My daughter will be 7 months old  and I feel uncomfortable sexually. However sex is just not enjoyable for me until I orgasm can I fix this? And he has not been lasting long enough to make me orgasm so we are always fighting because I never want to do anything. Any help?
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Re: Bad sex?

  • Can he get you to orgasm first before starting any penetration? Via manual, oral, or a toy?
  • And why do you feel uncomfortable sexually? 

    Try different positions that are easier for you to orgasm in. 

  • I would try some new positions. You may want to pick up a Karma Sutra book as some positions favor the female.
  • You're probably still carrying around some baby weight so you're a bit selfconscious --- add to it that your hormones are still whacked out so yeah, your body will respond differently.

    That he's not lasting long enough is a separate problem to address: maybe it's the fact he's a new dad or some other psychological factor attached to the pregnancy/being a new dad.

    How about masturbating him, you put on a show for him (if you're comfortable masturbating in front of him) or nonintercourse ways to turn him on: phone sex, writing some porn (maybe you can do it "Penthouse Letters" style) --- or if sex in uncomfortable for you until you get off, why not masturbate first and then go for intercourse?

    See if any of these help. GL.
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