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My mom is in the hospital :(

Her blood counts were borderline on Monday, but they gave her chemo anyway and I guess she's been feeling really sh*tty so she's being admitted.  I hate this. 

And my grandma is being a psycho.  She called my cell 2 minutes after I spoke to my mom, which I ignored, and then she called my work phone which I answered before looking at the number.  I don't even know how she got my work number. 

She just adds stress to everything, and I know she's going to spend all day at the hospital annoying my mom and crying over her and generally being a drama hore and probably calling everyone she knows and crying about it.  I don't want to deal with this :(

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  • I'm so sorry.  Hugs...
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  • I'm so sorry Annie. Your Mom is in my thougths. ((HUGS))
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  • I'm so sorry Annie. How stressful - without the added stress of your grandmother. Then you add that, and it gets overwhelming.

    I hope she's okay, and that she is able to get some rest and get better quickly.

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  • I'm sorry, chemo is no fun :(
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  • I can certainly empathize. I'm sorry all this is happening. Big hugs from me. 
  • I'm sorry your grandma is being like that. 

    ((((hugs)))) to you.  I hope your mom feels better soon and doesn't have to stay too long.

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  • Sorry to hear that.  Hope your mom feels better soon and can go back home.

    I have to go on a chocolate run at lunchtime for my co-worker - want me to get you some also?

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    I'm sorry :(

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    I'm so sorry, Annie. I hope everything ends up being okay.
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  • I'm so sorry.  :(  I hope your mom is feeling better soon.
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  • ((((((Annie)))))))))

     

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    Sorry to hear that.  Hope your mom feels better soon and can go back home.

    I have to go on a chocolate run at lunchtime for my co-worker - want me to get you some also?

    yes, please!

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  • ((annie))

    I'm sorry your mom is back in the hospital.   

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  • I'm sorry to hear that, Annie.
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  • oh annie... saying a prayer for your mama now.

    ((hugs))

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  • I'm sorry, Annie.  I hope that your grandma tones it down and that your mom starts feeing better pronto.
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  • (((hugs)))  Watching my mom go through chemo was one of the worst, most helpless things I've experienced.  Hopefully she feels better soon.
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  • I'm sorry annie.

    I don't know if you're looking for suggestions or if you were just venting, but I had a thought that maybe you can contact the hospital and ask for limited visiting hours for your mom so your grandma's not a hovering, blubbering stress all day?

  • Oh Annie hang in there. Try not to let your grandma get to you. In hindsight we all understand that stress can make us crazy. I fought with my dad several times to the point I didn't think we would ever talk again if my mom passed.  Now we are ina really good place  Your mom is the one who needs to tell her mom off. You just try to be there for your mom and the rest is unintelligible noise.  

    ((Hugs)) 

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    I'm sorry annie.

    I don't know if you're looking for suggestions or if you were just venting, but I had a thought that maybe you can contact the hospital and ask for limited visiting hours for your mom so your grandma's not a hovering, blubbering stress all day?

    This might be a good idea.  Maybe I can talk to the nurses tonight when I go in.  Hopefully she won't have to stay too long, but I have no idea at this point.

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  • Bleh, I'm sorry annie. This is so terribly hard on you, it makes me so sad.

     

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  • ugh, i'm so so sorry.

    i have my fingers crossed for your mom.

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  • ((((hugs))))

    It's a shiitty situation. I'm sorry.  

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    Oh Annie, I am so sorry.  Hang in there.
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  • :(  (((annie)))
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