Health & Fitness
julieandjojo
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Ridiculous revelation
I just realized..........
regardless of whether my husband eats right or not (including eating regularly which he does not) or whether or not he exercises, which he does not...
I still need to. For me. I know this is a ridiculous thing to just be realizing, I had always hoped we'd "do it together" and maybe someday we will but I am not waiting anymore or using his lack of health as an excuse.
Whew. Go me!
Daisy & Picabo 
Proud Newbie Gardener
Proud Newbie Gardener
Re: Ridiculous revelation
So true! And I've been on your husbands end...the one NOT eating right and getting exercise, while my spouse works hard. In fact DH lost a good 50 or 60 lbs before I hopped on the bandwagon. (I have now lost 67 and he just hit the 100 lb mark the other day!)
So perhaps eventually when he sees how healthy and happy you are, it will inspire him. The thing is, it might take time and he won't join in any sooner than HE wants to. Until then, you are right - you have to do it for you.
Go you!
I came to that revelation two years ago. Luckily shortly after my husband had his own revelation and started to eat healthier, exercise and lose weight. We still have semi-different diets since I don't eat as much carbs or processed foods. So now I make two dinners a night with similiar ingrediants so that I only end up using one extra pot.