Married Life
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Hi everyone! 
I literally just joined the nest and found this great board...hope to be a member and talk to some great people!
My husband and I were married in April of 2010 in Arizona and now living in west Texas for about 7 months now. Wanting to start a family (also a member on the bump) and wanting to start a new life here!
You all sound so nice and have great advice! Thank you!
Re: Just joined!!!
Welcome! I wish DH and I were TTC...but there's just too much going on in our lives right now.
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That's smart to wait until you are ready...we started trying a few months after our wedding and since have had a lot of changes in our lives financially but now are stable and doing well. Looking back we probably should have waited in CASE it happened...who knows how we would have survived!
Us too! I need a job first so we can afford a baby.