Staying in the mood...so to say..

Means32512

I have a problem with keeping it "wet" for my husband. we are TTC and I can't keep it wet. and if I do sometimes he takes a long time. I would like to do more four play but he doesn't go down and he is always wanting a blow job from me. How can we fix this?

nikki2601

Pre-seed is a lubricant that is sperm friendly. Try using that

TarponMonoxide

Why aren't you getting your share of oral sex??

Has this always been the way or has this been a recent occurance?

YOu need to sit down with him and have him face the music on this issue -- do it outside of the bedroom.

I'd personally stop the hum jobs until he starts anteing up with what YOU need.

LilBlkDress1

nikki2601:

Pre-seed is a lubricant that is sperm friendly. Try using that

This is what we used.

Although I'd be a little frustrated if he didn't go down on me when I wanted it and still wanted me to give him oral. 

Means32512

He doesn't like to go down it REALLY sux! I will sit down and talk to him about it. and I will also try the pre-seed.

 

Thanks ladies! I will keep you posted!

 

sierraberry32

Another way that could work is you having an orgasm first, during foreplay... We naturally produce a lot of mucus (didn't mean to sound yucky) when we orgasm. So that might be the way to stay lubricated naturally...

MyaMaternity

You should be getting your share of foreplay.  Talk to him about what turns you on.  He can't expect it if he doesn't give it to you.  Also you can use a lubricant to help.

reegurl

does pre-seed get sticky or dry up easily after a few mins?  i have this problem with other brands...