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AMLQ: lack of sex drive

Whenever women say they are having a lack of sex drive, it's always suggested that they go to the doctor and talk about it. What exactly will the doctor do about this?

Prescribe wine? Ecstasy? LMK.

Re: AMLQ: lack of sex drive

  • Whatever the fuckings it is, prescribe some to H. Really just tired of the once a week shiit and had a big fight about it the other day.

    He made up for it last night though Big Smile

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  • I'm pretty sure the doc is just going to say, "That sucks for your H." And then snicker about you over lunch.

    Or offer antidepressants. Which will probably kill your sex drive, BTW.

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  • Tell the woman to pick herself up by her bootstraps and put out more.  At least if the doc's like some of the toddler peeps.
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  • I'm sure there are legitimate medical reasons that a sex drive could be lacking. 

    Right?

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  • imagescoutkate:

    I'm sure there are legitimate medical reasons that a sex drive could be lacking. 

    Right?

    Like "Between work, keeping the house reasonably clean, and taking care of a kid I'm so effing exhausted that sex is pretty low on my priority list"?
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  • imagetwatley:

    What exactly will the doctor do about this?

    Prescribe wine? Ecstasy? LMK.

    I always assumed some tests would be ran, etc. Hormones may be out of whack. IDK.

    What if you are hot and want sex all the time and you are wearing SO out?


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  • imageKitiara5512:

    Whatever the fuckings it is, prescribe some to H. Really just tired of the once a week shiit and had a big fight about it the other day.

    He made up for it last night though Big Smile

    Pssccch. I would feel lucky for once a week. My DH is lazy. Maybe I'll start throwing some testosterone in his smoothies.  

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  • imageVenus04d:
    imageKitiara5512:

    Whatever the fuckings it is, prescribe some to H. Really just tired of the once a week shiit and had a big fight about it the other day.

    He made up for it last night though Big Smile

    Pssccch. I would feel lucky for once a week. My DH is lazy. Maybe I'll start throwing some testosterone in his smoothies.  

    Oh noes. I gave him a couple of ultimatums. Said I would be sleeping on the couch (didn't work, I normally pass out to TV anyway) and that he wouldn't get any BJs again unless he returned the favor first since he didn't for very long last weekend because he promised for the next night. The no BJs threat worked. I got mad skillz yo.

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  • I assume it could be hormonal? IDK.
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  • imagewrite2nicole:
    imagescoutkate:
    I'm sure there are legitimate medical reasons that a sex drive could be lacking. Right?

    Like "Between work, keeping the house reasonably clean, and taking care of a kid I'm so effing exhausted that sex is pretty low on my priority list"?

    Seriously!

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  • imageKitiara5512:
    imageVenus04d:
    imageKitiara5512:

    Whatever the fuckings it is, prescribe some to H. Really just tired of the once a week shiit and had a big fight about it the other day.

    He made up for it last night though Big Smile

    Pssccch. I would feel lucky for once a week. My DH is lazy. Maybe I'll start throwing some testosterone in his smoothies.  

    Oh noes. I gave him a couple of ultimatums. Said I would be sleeping on the couch (didn't work, I normally pass out to TV anyway) and that he wouldn't get any BJs again unless he returned the favor first since he didn't for very long last weekend because he promised for the next night. The no BJs threat worked. I got mad skillz yo.

    Ha! Nice!

    When I pull that threat, I just wind up with squat since that's usually how I rope him in to the sectsay time I want! 

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  • I told her if she has zero desire, like ever, she should talk to her doctor cause that is what I have always heard.
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  • Usually they would check your prescriptions and send you to an endocrinologist to check hormone levels.

    But I'd think it turns up nothing medical a lot of the time and a whole lot of "My Husband is an @ss" is what really leads to lack of sex drive in women...

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  • So, ecstasy? 
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