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Hi! I'm *sorta* new, plus a sex poll

Hello ladies!  I have lurked and posted here a little bit before.  I think I've grown out of the board I used to post on TK, so I thought I'd come here to try to make a new home.

I've been married for 2 weeks as of Saturday.  My H and I have been together for 8 years.  We live in FL with our two furbabies, Millie and Pippy.  I love to cook and am a huge wine fan.  

So, question for you all.  Since the wedding, our sex life has been like WHOA!  We've been having lots more sex and I've really been enjoying it.  I think it might be just the honeymoon phase, though, so I wanted to ask how getting married affected your sex life.

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I look forward to getting to know you all!

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"Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make life so, right in the middle of it we die, lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce." - Natalie Goldberg

Re: Hi! I'm *sorta* new, plus a sex poll

  • Apparently H decided that once I bought the cow, he didn't need to get milked as often. Or sumshits. Its supposed to be the other way around, I thought, but nooOOOoo, he has to be the one thats too tired or has a (little) head cold.
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    "Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make life so, right in the middle of it we die, lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce." - Natalie Goldberg
  • Well two weeks after our wedding yeah, we were banging like gangsters on fi-yah.  Now it's like once or twice a week, lol.
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  • It has been a roller coaster for us. Up after the wedding, then we started TTC about 2 months later so that caused another spike. But it took 14 months of TTC so it got kind of routine. After the baby came, non existent. Picked back up and then we decided to TTC again and got ku during the fun stage. Now I'm pregnant again and has gone back to routine.
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  • We were dirty hors for one another for the first few years. Then we had a kid. End of hors and moved onto the "can you make it quick" phase.
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  • SKP82SKP82 member
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    Well two weeks after our wedding yeah, we were banging like gangsters on fi-yah.  Now it's like once or twice a week, lol.

    Bahahhaa.  It was about once or twice a week before.

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    "Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make life so, right in the middle of it we die, lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce." - Natalie Goldberg
  • I was six months pregnant when we got married. It was the same until my daughter was born and then it dropped off. 

  • I'd say it got worse, sorta. The quality of fantastic, it's the quantity that took a nose dive.

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    I'd say it got worse, sorta. The quality of fantastic, it's the quantity that took a nose dive.

    This, which is why I dont bitchandmoan more often. Quality is fanfuckingtastic, but not much on quantity.

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  • Even more choices to add to the poll Thing is with sex and marriage is that it is ever changing. At least in my experiences. Sometimes we will go 3 days without sex other times we will have sex multiple times a day.
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  • Our sex life is good, always has been, because it is not that important to either of us.  By that I mean, if we have sex, great, if we don't, it's cool too.  

    My exH used to keep track of our sex life, whether or not we were TTC.  He once shoved the calendar in my face, complaining he had not had sex for 52 days.  I told him it would be at least 53 before I touched him again.

     Oh, and Hi and welcome to ML!

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