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Sex in the morning

Whenever we have sex in the morning - and I do mean before noon - we both end up grumpy, crabby, and irritable for the rest of the day (regardless of how good/bad it was). We usually get into really stupid fights and snap at each other or have to keep our distance from each other (although, for me, that doesn't help my mood).

When we have sex in the afternoon or at night, we're fine. Any ideas on how to break this trend?

Maryanne

Re: Sex in the morning

  • Interesting... I'm no expert, so I can't offer much more advice except to say, stop having sex in the mornings?
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  • Hard to do when that's when he's most "in the mood".
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  • Personally i love morning sex, gets me reay for my day! Maybe try to break the trend by trying to let things go more. Sounds like this has become a pattern and now its almost expected to be bad after. Try to let things good, really think before you speak or assume something is mean or rude when it may not really be.

    Also try to plan something nice to do after, like get dressed and go to breakfast! Or something....

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    I agree with pp, it seems like you two have made the bad attitude/fighting connect some how with morning sex. Make a point to do something fun that day/night after. Snuggle up and watch a movie, go for a walk, go out to dinner... Something that keeps the connection of sex going. 

  • So still have sex in the morning but stay away from each other the rest of the day so you can't get into fights and be moody with each other.  That is really odd though. 
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  • I would recommend some rest afterward, maybe?

    I'm no expert but I get crabby if I'm sleepy after sex but have stuff to get accomplished.

    If that doesn't work, I just recommend stopping; it just doesn't seem worth it.

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