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My Parent's Are Divorcing

Why does this bother me?  I'm flippen a grown @$$ woman. 

Gah.  They've been married for 30 years and are calling it quits.  The dynamics are... tough.

Please tell me I'm not nutso for being upset about this.

Re: My Parent's Are Divorcing

  • berburberbur member
    You are definitely not crazy! I think my parents have a really weird relationship, and would still be upset if they were divorcing! I hope it all turns out well for you and them!
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  • You are not nuts, I think it is perfectly normal to be upset.  While you are an adult it still hurts to see your parents split up...it is part of your life they are disrupting as well.  I am sorry you are going through this and I am here if you need anything,
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  • I am so sorry.  You are not nuts - not even close.  I think it's hard to process the changing dynamic in a family no matter your age!!  My parents marriage was less than perfect and they really had a tough time for the last five or ten years of my Dad's life.  It was so hard to witness.  Whenever they made any mention of divorce/separation it would give me strong emotions.
  • Jenn I am so sorry to hear this.  you are not crazy, I think your reaction is perfectly normal.  As other have said this is disrupting your life as well.  If you need anything please let me know. 
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  • Jenn you're not nuts. Regardless of how old you are, I think it's normal to be sad and/or upset about your parents divorcing. It's a huge change and will still effect you and E.
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