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Husband taking another females word over mine?
I am going to make this short. My husband and i had a photoshoot together for his new magazine. his god-sister was one of the models.my husband purchased shoes for the shoot for her to wear. The god-sister then begins telling the other models she is keeping the shoes. I tell ALL the models that they may only take home the items they brought.Ok so before god-sister leaves she goes to my husband and tells him i was rude to her blah blah blah and then says oh i can't take the shoes because I wouldn't let her. My husband then grabs the shoes and takes them to her.......Now there were 5 other people there and no one else got to keep stuff. He later accuses me of being rude (just so happen a few of the other workers were around and agreed with me and told him i was not rude and that the god-sister was rude) IS THIS OK? Should he appologize for acusing me or even going against what i said without even discussing it with me? Let me add 2 yrs ago i went through his phone after an argument and found text between the two (him and God-sister) where he was talking badly about me. SHOULD I ADDRESS THIS WITH HER? because he doesn't seem to think this is an issue. I THINK SHE IS PLAYING US AGAINST EACH OTHER AM I WRONG?
Re: Husband taking another females word over mine?
I am pretty sure this is MUD but...
Don't bother confronting the girl - she isn't the one who screwed you. You have a huge, whopping huge HUSBAND problem.
Some heel, and a soleless heel, at that, pumped the photoshot for all it is worth. And that same heel has a toe hold as far as getting to wear the shoes to a club.
Maybe the OP needs to shoe the entire bunch of them away. You need a whole different platform to stand on. Don't let them clog the issue by taking those shoes.
Huh? Why are you doing hooker shoe photo shoots? I'm really, really confused.
But no. You talk to him, not to her. And you make him pay for the shoes.
Well wtf else was he going to do with 6 pairs of hooker heels? Wear them around the house? And if it was his photo shoot for his business maybe you should have let him decide what to do with the crap he bought after?
I'm guessing the history with this girl is affecting both of your positions on this issue. yes, I would take exception if I told DH I said x, someone else insisted I said y, and he believed the other person over me and got angry at me assuming I said y. But I think there are far more factors at play here. It also sounds like your real issue is that you dislike the type of relationship they have but don't have the balls to call him out on that so you're playing games by finding other stuff to hold against her. And then it backfired.
Other than being married to him, what is your involvement in this magazine/his job? I realize HE bought the shoes, but unless you're his business partner/ manager/ or... what have you, you were actually out of place dictating what the "models" could or couldn't do.
So, while you're pissed that he didn't back you up, maybe he feels you overstepped your bounds in relation to his job.
And WTF is a "god sister" anyhow?
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You guys, you really need to read OP other posts about her husband.
No i am not his business manager or anything i was just styling the girls. so maybe you are right i may have overstepped my bounds,never looked at it like that. her grand mother is his God-Mother whick idk how that makes her a God-sister but that is what they call each other.
This exactly. Is something is going on between them? There is no situation that he should've done that to you. I find him incredibly rude for doing that. He should've talked to you about it first instead of just giving her the shoes cause he wanted to. Why is he buying her shoes to begin with? and talking negatively about you to another woman? I'd flip Sh*t over that. I believe husbands should stand by their wives no matter what and it seems like he put that other woman first
Agreed.
btw, a god-sister has no blood relation to H. She is solely the daughter of his "God-Mother".