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Birth Control decreasing Sexual Desirer

Just curious has anyone else found huge change in the sexual desire while on birth control?

When I was younger I had a very health sex drive and loved to fool around with my partner but then started taking birth control to avoid any "accidents". I though I was just getting older more mature and had bigger things to worry about when my desire slowed down, I didn't even think of it. The past couple of years sex has semed like such a chore and I just plain didn't want to be bothered with it, sure when it started it was fun but nothing I couldn't live with out. About a month and a half ago I gave up my birth control as we started talking about having a family and wanted to get my cycle regular, and as off the past few weeks I REALLY want sex again and its beens amazing each time. 

I can only assume one has to do with the other but can't say with 100% certainty. Just wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.

Just for disclosure I have been on the pill or the shot for the past few years.

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Re: Birth Control decreasing Sexual Desirer

  • Very common for libido to be quashed with BCP or hormonal BC.

    Try something non hormonal; diaphragm and a condom.
  • Yep, this sounds normal.  Scientists have done studies on this and have found that there is often a decrease in sex drive when on the pill. 
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  • Getting off the pill made my sex drive surge. It finally made me feel like a woman again. Good luck!
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  • Yep, I had a very similar experience. Like you, I didn't realize it was the pill until I was off for a few months. Sex is much better without hormones being affected! 
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