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Requesting a Raise

I am having a conversation with my boss this afternoon about my pay rate. I started a new position a few weeks ago, and we still haven't settled on a wage. The amount I am asking for is less than others have made in this position and is still $3-6/hour less than the state average for similar positions. I also had good experience before starting with this company, in fact accepting my previous position was a significant step down for me, but I relocated and with the economy you've got to do what you've got to do. That experience is very rarely recognized so I want to make sure to point that out as well.

I wrote a letter basically stating that I am in good standing, I have new responsibliities and have a strong background. I also state that I understand I'm asking for a significant raise ($2.75) but it is still less than my predecessors and less than the state average. I wanted them to see that I'm not being greedy, but need to be compensated.

I am debating whether or not to bring the letter or just make these points verbally. What would you do? TIA

Re: Requesting a Raise

  • I'd bring notes that you can refer to if you need them, but I'd leave the letter at home.  Having a face-to-face conversation is always better when speaking to your boss and you need to see what his/her reaction is to the conversation and subtly move it along accordingly.

  • Guess I should have mentioned this: My boss and I have a really good relationship, and we will definitely have an open converstation. But no matter what we discuss he will have to talk to our CEO and COO about my wage, which is why I wanted my POV in writing.
  • When I requested a raise, I wrote a letter since a) It is hard to get 5 minutes in with my boss to talk with him, and b) to outline all my reasoning and my math/calculations.  A little bit different in my situation since my pay is indirectly based on how much money I make for the practice.

    I gave them my letter a couple of a days before I scheduled a meeting with my boss & his wife (the office manager) so that they had a few days to think about it before meeting with me.  So, I'd bring the letter so that they can remember later all the points you made verbally. 

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  • I'd bring the letter just to show that while you are comfortable discussing this with your boss, you have also made the effort to put it in formal writing (that is always the professional way, right?).  This way, if the discussion gets off track or you don't communicate it exactly the way you want to say it, it is also in writing.
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