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Sex issue
does anyone else have issues with your DH acting disgusting during foreplay or sex. and then get mad when you get turned off?
Re: Sex issue
To answer your question, No. Also H doesn't do anything that I find disgusting.
Can I ask what he is doing that turns you off?
I also want to know how he is 'acting disgusting.' Dirty talk? Slapping you with his penis like they do in porn? Slobbering on you? Motorboating your boobs? Suggesting kinkier activities than you personally are into?
So many possibilities and it's truly so subjective what sexual activities are 'disgusting' to any individual person. One person's turn-off is another's hot button.
Once again:
Communication is KEY.
What is it that you find offensive?
You do not have to partake in anything that you do not like.
And convey precisely that to your H: "Stop; ______________ is making me uncomfortable and I don't like it."
He should be fine iwht that.
If he keeps it up, you have a whole other problem on your hands.
This sounds like summer camp sixth grade humor to me.
Meh.
Ask him if he wants fart time or sexy time. Farts happen, but being a sixth grader about it (as pp mentioned) is really dumb.
So he only farts on perpous and laughs at it during sex?
Nah, hand him some Beano.
This would turn me off for good for the night. It's really gross to do at all but especially when you're about to maybe put your face in his crotch! Guess he doesn't expect a bj! :-)
I've been accidentally burped at and farted at. Laughing occurred on both sides. I don't think it's a big deal. Things are moving around a lot and stuff happens.
If he's doing it on purpose regularly and ignoring the fact that it upsets you, that's an issue. If it happened once or twice and he laughed in surprise, not a big deal.
Exactly this.
The accidental bodily functions can be funny. Laughing is good for you (even during sex). If he does farts intentionally and laughs that needs to be stopped.