Trying to Reconnect Romantically

knocknonheavensdoor

DH and I want to try and bring some fun and romance back into our relationship. We are each writing down a bunch of different things we would like to do together. These things range from going places/doing new activities to romantic gestures to naughty wishes. Mine will go in one bowl and his in another. Each week we will pick one suggestion from the other one's bowl and make it happen no matter what. I think it would be a fun way to get to know more about each other and maybe learn more about ourselves.

What kind of stuff do you all do to rekindle and reconnect? 

rakle99

When I take it upon myself to plan something for my husband he really appreciates it, and vice versa. Last night I drew a bath for my husband and put out some candles and soft music on Pandora. Sometimes we just go walking in the park together and hold hands. We will go out for a drink or dessert after dinner. My husband and I will also play a normal game and loser has to do something sexual for the other. One time we played Sorry, and whenever one of us knocked the other back into HOME, that person had to follow a demand. It was one of the best foreplay I've ever had.

honeybunni3

I feel like I'm not as romantic as my SO. I really love your bowl idea and might use it

We normally connect to each other with small gestures, like sometimes go into a porn store for fun (rare occasion), give random massages (foot ones have been popular lately) and play video games (helps us connect romantically and be a kid at heart). I guess we try to do something fun and fit it in our busy schedules...Sometimes staying at home and watching a Redbox movie is great as well. Oh! And wine night! I love wine night lol