Trouble in Paradise
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Well- how is this?
I cheated. I emotionally cheated. (through fb and emails). I've been married almost 8 years and we have two kids... my husband found out- I did not tell him. and he left me.... BUT.... We have agreed to seperate for a few weeks to work on ourselves. He is very very hurt by my actions and cannot trust me right now. but, he also said that I am not the only one to blame. He admitted that he feels he is partly to blame for my cheating (he suffers from depression and has not been taking any medication, work schedule sucks/ traveling 75% of time, etc etc)... so he is going to see a psychologist to work on his depression and I am going to see a therapist to work on my lying, cheating, etc. We really love each other and want to work on this.
so.... what I'm trying to say is.... yes, I think you can get past cheating- if you BOTH are willing to work on it. I would see a therapist to figure out why he emotionally cheated to begin with.... that could be your answer as to if you want to work on it.
Good luck