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You DO NOT do in front of your husband?
For instance, I have friends that don't burp or fart or pee in front of their husbands....what about you all?
Re: What is something....
I didn't ask what don't you HIDE from your spouse, I asked what don't you DO in front of your spouse.
Two completely different things.
We do everything in front of each other...better?
What do I not do in front of him? Farting - check. Peeing - check. Pooping - check. Spraying for insects - NOPE! His phobia of chemicals makes me have to wait until he's left the house so I can help keep all the spiders and critters from crawling inside. I try to respect his fear and I don't spray near his stuff, but I really don't want to wake up next to huge ugly spiders either. The less he knows, the better.
This cracks me up.
I'm at a loss. Kevin is a germaphobe so I'm sure I filter my grossness to some extent when he's around.
Change your tampon in front of him? Do you all do that? I do pretty much everything in front of him but not THAT. And if he is in the restroom when THAT needs to be done, I make him turn around or I go to the ugly bathroom on the opposite end of the house.
Personally, I enjoy bombing the toilet when he is around. I can totally bomb the toilet better than him and I like to remind him who's boss.
((Snowful, I am LMAO))
I guess to me this is my private time. I don't go in there when he's using the restroom. Honestly, I really don't want to be in there. Sometimes we do leave the door open so it's not like the other one doesn't know what going on in there. Maybe I feel like since I don't get to use the restroom in private when M is around I don't need more audience from DH. DH does lock the door when we he goes so M won't barge when (because she will).
N/A since I still have the same package of tampons I bought in 2006 (oh mirena, I will miss thee), but I'm guessing when most people say 'in front of' they mean 'in the vicinity of' or 'I don't totally shut the door and maybe we continue to converse' not 'he's going to watch me do this' right?
Pooping and peeing is typically done with the door shut, but we'll continue to converse if it's just pee. Anything having to do with the vag (shaving, tampons) is done in private.
We don't live together, FWIW.