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Hi!
We saw a house we liked, will be putting offer in soon, the seller's agent is requestIng copy of my driver's license, this is the 1st time we've been asked for that when submitting offer, it makes me uncomfortable (not sure why agent needs my DL) , is this common?
Tia
Re: Offer Requirements
We were asked for information we didn't feel comfortable giving so we didn't. Only the bank needs certain information. We still got the house. If you haven't even submitted an offer yet, I would be careful. We never had to show our drivers licenses but that specific requirement might vary by state. What does your REA say?
ETA: In our case, the seller's agent wanted to see DH's paycheck and we said absolutely not. I can't imagine giving the level of detail PP provided to a seller. Not only is it potentially risky to disclose confidential information to someone who isn't your mortgage broker, but you lose some bargaining power if the sellers know you could "afford" more house than your offer. It doesn't make sense to me. We just said our commitment letter from the bank would have to suffice and it did and we're happily settled in now.
The seller should not need to see your face via the ID. And, there's no way someone should get your SS either out of this exchange of info.
The only time we ever had to show ID was at the closing table when the title company verified our identities as we sat there before we signed the closing documents.
I would never give such personal info as a SS# to the sellers. The only time our licenses were needed was at closing. We obviously gave more information like bank accounts and salary info to our mortgage lender, which was necessary for loan approval. But in no way should the sellers need that information.
If you have an REA, I would have him or her deal with it, but would not be willing to give up that information. You could ask the REA about the driver's license thing.