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Dirty delete of "help I think my husband is cheating"
Holy cow....lady, you gotta be kidding.
Cast of charavcters:
OP
Her H
GF (who the H swears is ONLY a friend.... this is somebody he dated awhile back, before the OP and he met)
Recap:
H is still involved with former "girlfriend." OP who is his wife finds nuddy photos of gf on his phone, gf passed rumors before the OP and the H were married, etc.
The then-bf/her H did NOTHING to squelch the bullshit and he did NOT take the OP's side.
Now the OP is finding naked photos of the gf, the H has not even told his hairdresser they are married...haha, funny that the OP and the H have the same hairdresser and the H didn't bother to state his marital status to the hairdresser. Man, that's integrity for ya.
And there is a chalupa due in November. Imagine brining a baby into this mess.
OP thinks that the H curtailed the relationship with the gf. I say not so. The federal deficit says it's been ongoing since they got married and was ongoing long before the OP met this pile of dung that she married.
She needs to get rid of him.
And she needs to stop having damn fucken hand trouble: Deleting is NOT COOL. Be a woman and stand behind yer words.
OP thinks that she curtailed the "friendship" when this mess began when they were dating. I say no. If anybody was going to put and end to this mess, it should have been him....
And instead he let this gf say and do as she wished. that's more integrity for you --- your boyfriend is permitting his (supposed) former gf to say all kinds of horrible things about you, including the claim that the OP is having an affair with a woman. And nice of him to permit his (supposed) former gf to call the OP a whore.
MORE integrity. What a gem the OP got.
Re: Dirty delete of "help I think my husband is cheating"
Here's some of what I managed to have left over, since I had to make it look normal and readable; the OP used some kind of annoying font:
A few days ago, I had this odd creepy feeling, so I (gasp!) checked his email.. (I AM his wife.. he has done it to me, and I have a right to do it when I feel like this) and what do I find?? Naked pics of the WOMAN! Now granted, the first ones I found, they were from when we first started dating (2 years ago) and I found another one he had sent to a friend of his when I left for out of country.. but the point is.. WHY DID HE STILL HAVE THEM?
As I said, Not STILL, cookiepuss:
HAS HAD them for a long time.
And he's checking her phone, this whoremaster who is cuckolding his wife. haha --- nice Chaucerian term. That's exactly what's going on here.
Everybody in that scene sounds like they are veyr young 20s.
And if not young in age, emotionally immature.
"help I think my husband is cheating" Shouldnt the title be changed to HELLO!!! EVERYONE!!!! I have PROOF my husband is cheating!!! Had it beforehand, didn't care, married him anyway!
These kind of people end up having kids....raise kids...the kids fet messed up in this crap!
It's amazing how these dumbbells seem to out-stupid one another.
Listen, chick: if walks like a duck, if it sh!ts like a duck and if it lies and cheats and has nuddy pictures of its alleged exgirfriend on its cellphone like a duck, and if it has a shady and questionable friendship with an exgirlfriend like a duck, and if it shows you a lack of respect, total disregard and ain't got your back like a duck...then I am guessing it is a duck.
He never got over the supposed ex gf --- I can't tell you how many times I have seen it, here and personally.
There's a guy I know who broke up with his FI nearly 8 years ago; he still is seeing her (and he is dating a second person; the signs are everywhere and Second Person can't see it for what it really is). I can't figure out what the fascination is --- oh sure, you can get sex anywhere; what's so ultra spectacular about sex with a supposed ex gf???)
It's kinda what you get for asking for advice from strangers. They don't know the whole story and never will. You get what you asked for. She was looking for the "get rid of him" posts. She got it. Then got upset. Sucks but sometimes the truth hurts...