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friends husband....what do i tell her?
my friends husband wasnt listening to anything she was telling him last night. she would tell him something. then, 5 minutes later, he would ask her about what she told him.she said to him you are not listening to me. he says thats what husbands do. he said no husbands listen to their wives.
my friends husband tells her the following "I dont care how you feel." what a jerk. she is mad.
what do u think? Isnt he total ass?
Re: friends husband....what do i tell her?
Send her a sympathy card. She needs one.:(
Where did she get this prize she married? out of a Cracker Jack box?
Some people are assholes. some people like to be married to assholes (yes, really).
Don't get involved. Support your friend. Plan events where just the two of you hang out.
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
You don't tell her anything until she asks for your advice and you be there for her when she needs you. She is married to him and puts up with him everyday. Chances are she knows he is an a$$
And yes..I agree he is a total a$$
MYOB!!
He may be a jackass but he is her jackass
she picked him
Sure, he's being a total a$$hole. But this is her problem, not yours. Stay out of it UNLESS she asks you for help, advice, insight, etc. She's a big girl (enough so that she CHOSE to marry this guy) so if she has an issue, she'll handle it.
If you feel the need to vent about it, talk to your husband. Otherwise, mind your own business.
This. Stay out of it, and do stuff with just her so she has a break from him. Its her cross to carry, not yours.
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Just continue to keep your mouth shut until asked directly by get. Stay a supportive friend , a good listener and do fun outing with her. She needs this.
How on earth did she end up with that prize of a man? Total a-hole.
The week before his next annual physical, she should call his doctor's office and request that a hearing test be added.
A part of my job is teaching about listening and hearing, and his actions AND his immediately angry defensiveness tells me that he really isn't HEARING her.
Sure, he sounds like a total ass but I'm sure he was a total ass when they were dating too.
This makes me laugh because anybody who's ever read your replies on the Knot knows that your reading comprehension is non-existent.
You need to call your FMIL and tell her she'll really be too busy planning the RD to tag along for dress shopping.
I'm more than willing to start validating people's ideas when they start having ideas worth validating