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Your first time ?
I used a condom my first time. I have friends who didn't . Some of my female friends said they didn't even think about using any protection their first time.
Re: Did you use protection ?
considering for my first time I was only like 17... yes, we did...
and did until we were out of high school... after that we didn't...
They went ahead and had sex and were not responsible enough to use a condom? Great.
ALWAYS use a condom. I don't care if this is your first time or your 50,001th. And it's recommened you use another method of BC with a condom. Condoms break...it happened to me, twice.:(
If you are going to fool around, you suit up for action. Everybody thinks AIDS, HIV, STDs and pregnancy happens to other people.
I had a condom break on me once. I was using a different brand(Lifestyles) which broke during the act...I remember thinking to myself "boy this brand condom really give a feeling of wetness"...When I was finished there was the broken condom hanging from Big Jim and the Twins.
We got lucky and she didn't get pregnant .
I, stupidly, did not. I still can't believe I was such an a$$. I was also drunk. But the second time... the second time I was sober AND used a condom. Dumb teenagers.
10/12-Married my best friend
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I actually didn't... the man I lost my virginity to had a vasectomy, so I had no fear of getting pregnant, and he said he was clean. I trusted him. Luckily he was... he could very well have been lying to me about his STD status and it was stupid of me to not insist on a condom. For the record I was 18, he was 42.
My first time with my FI I used a condom, though. And we both insisted on STD tests before we stopped using condoms and I got on the Depo.
I was young, dumb and didn't use protection...glad I didn't get pregnant or a disease!
This. 100%
Yes. I used protection every time until my DH and I wanted to conceive: condom from 16 - 24. Pill and condoms until I got married (with the exception of one boyfriend, just used the pill with him). Pill until we wanted to be parents.
I can't understand people who don't want kids (yet) but don't use birth control. Playing with fire. Seems idiotic.