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Content :)
So I had posted a few down about how my DH woke me up in the middle of the night for sex, and surprisingly didn't even bother trying to be safe and either use a condom or pull-out. Well I thought maybe this was a one time thing that only happened because he was possessed by his "other head" in the middle of the night, but it's happened two more times! This last time, after we were done, he did make a comment about how we should be using condoms, but I'm still surprised he did it 3 times without protection of any sort! And it was more of a "we should, but I don't really want to" rather than a "I can't believe we didn't use it" kind of comment.
I know this is kind of a silly post in a way, but he's always been the cautious, logical type, and I thought I'd have to wait forever before he'd do anything like this. I know that I'm not guaranteed to get pregnant from TTC for only one month, but I am just content with the fact that I get a chance. 
I personally like the idea of casually TTC, instead of full-on TTC, because I don't have as high of expectations for getting pregnant. I have high anxiety, so I think if we were 100% committed to TTC, I'd have a really hard time every month that went by that I got a negative test. My AF is due next weekend, so fingers crossed that it doesn't come, and if it does, I'm still happy that I had a chance.
Re: Content :)
Thanks! I notice the same thing. I hope I'm not the only one with a great sex life, or maybe it's just that more people talk negatively about their relationships. I personally try to focus on the positives whenever I can.
Nice to meet you by the way. Congrats on your upcoming wedding.
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