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Caught
Let me start off by saying it has been awhile since me and my fiance have been together. It's partly having the new baby but this week has also been horrible. And we've "missed" each other when it comes to having sex. This morning we were catching up with it and my almost 3 year old son, woke up especially early(compared to when he usually does) and came into our room and caught us in the act. I don't think he was there very long but we didn't know he was until he asked us what we were doing. I was so shocked and embarrassed and told him to leave the room and I'd be out to see him in a few minutes.
He didn't really ask me much about it but I told him that me and daddy were just playing a game that only adults can play(LOL, I didn't know what else to say!) And he just left it at that.
Has this ever happened to you? Will he be totally scarred?
Re: Caught
Just let this go. Chances are the kiddo will never remember what he saw.
Yea this has happened...and it's awkward. Odds are this happens to majority of parents who still have sex. Kids wake up and generally go to their parents room and sometimes they will see things they shouldn't. It happens. And I highly doubt this kid will be scarred.
Couple things you could do is invest in a new lock and lock it when you are having sex. And talk to a child about knocking before entering. Which a two year old might not fully grasp right away but if you repeat it eventually they get it.
Yes caught red handed and we told DD that we were wrestling and that she was to go back to bed and not come back down stairs.
Last night as DH was coming we heard the footprints coming down the stairs so he pulled out fast and ran for the bathroom. I covered myself with the blanket, told DD to head back upstairs. When DH came back in I asked him what happened to the blob he said he came in his hand, ewww! HAHAHAHA
Do you remember anything from when you were 2/3 years old?
I wouldn't think about it...