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Hey Nesters! Im new to this forum and had a question for some of you experienced married couples out there. Do you have any suggestions or advice for my husband and I? Anything will do. Thank you already in advance. 
-Renata
Re: Married for a month!
Congratulations!!
Effective Communication is key. That really is the most important thing besides loving the other person.
I agree with PP- always comunicate!!
And I will add: always show appreciation, even for the little things. A simple "thank you" goes a long way.
Congrats!
Congrats!! I wish I could give advice but I also just celebrated being married for one month on the 15th. It has definitely flown by. It is nice not having the wedding to plan though so I've noticed we take advantage of that extra time we have. As well as patiently waiting for our wedding video and photos!!!
Kristen
I'm not married yet, but I consider myself a nester. We've been together for a bit and have a home and family together.
My top suggestion: date your husband. Yes you are married, but don't let that change the relationship. Continue to go out on dates, get away from everything and just ENJOY each other.
To agree with PP, communicate, but do it correctly. I'm not the best at this all the time. I tend to shut down when I get hurt or mad. FI hates it. We have been working on this for awhile now. I don't do it near as often as I used to, but I still find myself doing it from time to time. Things go so much smoother when I actually calmy talk to my FI (shocker).