Weird request??

uskydive2

So my DH  and i  were taking after  a couple  bottles  of  wine  over the weekend. and he  mentioned that  he wants to  try fisting me  and or  watch/use a wine bottle or  fruit/veggies with me.   I am  not  sure how I feel about  this.  a little turn  on by  it but a little insulted.  Any one else   have something like this asked  of them?  or is he  just a perv?

sgautschi

Sounds like it's probably just one of those weird fantasies that he probably won't hold you to, but would probably enjoy if you were up for it. I'd say the alcohol was definitely at play, and although he may really want to do that, I'd say you're off the hook if it's not something you're into. I'd just drop it and if he brings it up again, just explain to him how you feel about it like you did with us.

TarponMonoxide

I think he is nutsnuts NUTS.

I'd say no to that in a hurry.

WHY does he want to do it??? And where in heck did he hear about it?

CaliforniaDream87

I wouldve told him the only way I would do it is if he puts the same "bottle" up his a**.

 

Im sure he would change his mind QUICK.

SMH. 

rachaelhudson

I guess I understand wanting to use some props, but a bottle?! wtf?!

DaringMiss

Ok...what exactly is his fantasy?  To put things inside of you or put unsexual items inside of you?  Figure out what is his kink is.

If he just wants to put things other than himself inside you, start with sex toys. 

Lovestojam

While I do respect that every individual may have, for lack of a better term, unusual fantaises. I've never understood the whole "fisting" thing. First off, I can't imagine anything larger than DH's d*ck inside me down there. And while I understand that it will stretch, are there that many women out there who could fit an entire fist or base of a wine bottle in their vagina? It just strikes me as totally uncomfortable, but again, to each their own. I cringe to think.

Golden42

Lovestojam:

While I do respect that every individual may have, for lack of a better term, unusual fantaises. I've never understood the whole "fisting" thing. First off, I can't imagine anything larger than DH's d*ck inside me down there. And while I understand that it will stretch, are there that many women out there who could fit an entire fist or base of a wine bottle in their vagina? It just strikes me as totally uncomfortable, but again, to each their own. I cringe to think.

Well, you push a baby out of there, so I don't have trouble believing that it can be done, but the real point is that the OP doesn't (and myself and I'm going to assume most people don't) find the idea sexy at all. I think you need to discuss for him that this would not turn you on at all, and would give you a lot of pain. If he wants to experiment a big, try getting a vibrator or something that is designed for sex.

FSUalum

Did you ask him about it after you sobered up? 

annmarie714

Golden42:

Well, you push a baby out of there, so I don't have trouble believing that it can be done, but the real point is that the OP doesn't (and myself and I'm going to assume most people don't) find the idea sexy at all. I think you need to discuss for him that this would not turn you on at all, and would give you a lot of pain. If he wants to experiment a big, try getting a vibrator or something that is designed for sex.

 

This.  If you plan to do anything like this, please use stuff that is designed to go inside of you!  And if you plan on going the "alternative" route, please make sure the bottles/veggies/etc are VERY CLEAN before you use them so you don't get any type of infection downtown.

StefffiC

annmarie714:

This.  If you plan to do anything like this, please use stuff that is designed to go inside of you!  And if you plan on going the "alternative" route, please make sure the bottles/veggies/etc are VERY CLEAN before you use them so you don't get any type of infection downtown.

 We've never tried bottles or veggies, but we do fist and it's very intense. There is very little pain in the act, but the day after there usually is a small amount.

 If you're taking your time and using enough lube it's the most intense, amazing pleasure I have. We only do it when we're both in the mood, maybe 4 or 5 times a year.

saberswife

yeah talk to him when he is sober and ask him what he really wants and what your comfy doing my hubby and i talked now our sex life is really good bc we both have what we want