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I don't want it....

I am 8 weeks pregnant and just don't want to have sex anymore. Well I feel like I do then we go to do it then I back out cause all of a sudden I don't want it. Ughhh what do I do? We went from having sex like every night to once every 8 or 9 days. 

Re: I don't want it....

  • First off, be a full grown adult and say "I do not want to have sex anymore" not "I don't want it anymore."

    Nothing you can do.  Your problem is a hormonal one due to the pregnancy.

    Expect more of the same until after you deliver; it will take awhile for your hormones to get back to their pre pregnancy state.
  • It will get better in the second trimester when you feel better in general and aren't so big that you are uncomfortable. At least this is what my friends and I found. Just be kid to your self. I am sure you are tired and maybe nauseous. Everything improves in the second trimester. 
  • Sex every night?  Good god - my husband wouldn't understand what happened.  We're once-a-week-ers.  It's okay to not do it every night even if you aren't pregnant.  I promise my husband still loves me.
  • Your pg.

    Its normal not to want it...at the moment.

    Tell your H what you just told us. Whats the big deal? 

  • It's the hormones. Just be honest with your H about it.  Chances are it'll subside in a few weeks.  First trimester you're exhausted.  Second trimester the dirty dreams start kicking in and you regain interest.... at least in my experience.
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  • yep just those lovely hormones. thats doing it to you  you got nothing to worry about my hubby and i didn't have sex thou my entire pregancy bc of them 
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