I'm pregnant and I'm losing feeling for my husband

Michelle 87

I really love him but when I got pregnant I feel all types of things about him he has a smart mouth we can't agree on anything is it because of the pregnancy or is it love being lost please help

TarponMonoxide

It could be hormones.

OR it could very well be that you and he were never able to agree on anything and now it's all coming out in the wash.

Hormones or  not, IF this problem existed, why wasn't this addressed by you and him? This is a communication problem or some other factor and it needs to be nipped in the bud and resolved. I suggest a counselor.

(and if this problem existed before you were married, you 2 either should have addressed it with premarital counseling or if the communication problems were extensive and unsolvable, the 2 of you should have gone your separate ways. Communication is key in every relationship and without it, you won't get very far) 

I don't know your ages (I am guessing you are both rather youg) or how long you've been together and I don't know your full backstory.  As I said, it could be hormones, maybe not. Only you know if this problem is an existing one, and has been prevalent in your relationship before pregnancy.

CaliforniaDream87

What exactly do you want us to say?

Could be hormones or could be that you two are having major differences. Talk them out. 

ZeroOrchestra

It really is hard to say without more detail. Can you give some specific examples? 

horsevaulter

When I first became pregnant, my DH and I had a lot more arguments and I was a lot more critical of him and his actions. I chalk it up to hormones, because now in the 2nd trimester we are back to normal. I would wait it out and see how you feel after you have your baby. Just remember that this is an emotional time for you so take it easy on yourself. This is probably an emotional time for him too, expecting a new baby and all.. Good luck, life has a funny way of working things out

NikinDanK

GIRL pregnancy makes us feel all kinds of crazy stuff...I've been so overwhelmingly angry or hurt about something that I can't even speak to my husband..and a few hours later not even sure why that even bothered me. Marriage isn't a "if I feel happy" kind of thing..I dont know where people began getting the idea that the second they hit a rough patch its "lost love" or "wasn't meant to be". It's silliness unless your hub is abusing you there's no excuse to chalk it up to lost love. My hubby and I went through premarital counselling, and when we go through rough patches we still talk to them about it and it helps SO MUCH. I'd say hands down find some outside help like counselling or mentoring. Churches often offer them free of charge and you can meet with a COUPLE-so you get things from a man and womans point of view. Don't give up Marriage is a commitment, a covenant, not a feeling. Feelings change alll the time..so I guarantee they will change for the better again!