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Lost the ability to...

Has anyone else here suddenly lost the ability to kiss? I know it sounds stupid. I have always been told I was a good kisser. H and I couldn't stop kissing each other when we first started dating, and have had frequent make-out sessions since. We only started slowing down in that department this past year with all the wedding planning and buying a house, then my birth control was screwing up my hormones and I had zero libido,etc.

About a month ago, and this has been after coming off birth control so I have my libido back, H told me I was using too much lip when kissing. He's never told me anything like that before, and he didn't say it in a rude way. We both have very open communication, and I was glad he told me, but now I'm kinda shy about trying to really get into kissing again. I feel like I've lost the ability and don't know how to get it back. It's probably because now I'm over thinking it...

Again, I know this is a weird post, but there has to be at least some of you who have gone through this at one point. TIA


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Re: Lost the ability to...

  • hmmm...I have kissed someone who is "too much tongue" guy...but I can't imagine kissing with too much lip.

    idk....I have noticed with my current relationship (and my previous one) they wanted a lot of of tongue kissing as things progress with foreplay and during sex.

    Maybe that is what he wants????

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