Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Intro
Just found this board, well realized what the BNOTB stands for. Have been married for over two years and turn 30 this year. A year ago DH and I talked about TTC at 30, but as the birthday approaches I have realized I'm not ready to and we're not really in the right place to start a family.
I started a small business last year as a Wedding Planner, started it on the side and now I'm doing it full time with a part-time job to bring in extra money. DH is an intern-Architect and needs to take 7 exams to become licensed. We are both in agreement that we need to build our careers first.
A lot of my friends who are married (about half our friends), either are pregnant or have had a baby in the past year. So I do feel some pressure. Luckily our parents haven't put any pressure on us. Some days I feel like I could be cool without children, but then my heart does melt when I see a cute baby. Anywho, until I really feel ready to have children I am trying NOT to conceive.
Nice to "meet" you all!