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Oral question?

Also any tips on how to fix the gag reflex? My H is to big for me to get all the way in my mouth and i gag to much. I can never get him to finish because of this. How can I fit him in my mouth and not gag every time?

Re: Oral question?

  • Good question because at least you can get some of it in your mouth. My H is thicker than a coke can seriously. I cant even get his head in my mouth. My hand only goes half way around his shaft. If you find the answer post it here
  • Adam and Eve has numbing kits (including sprays and mints) and supposedly help mitigate the gag relfex. I've never tried them but they got pretty good reviews.
  • I used to have numbing stuff that you put in the back of your throat. It tasted pretty good but I can't remember where I got it. Any sex store probably has it or you could find it online, too.
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  • imagebinzy2524:
    Good question because at least you can get some of it in your mouth. My H is thicker than a coke can seriously. I cant even get his head in my mouth. My hand only goes half way around his shaft. If you find the answer post it here
    I can think of worse problems!
  • Do what DW does with me, use your hand to stroke while you go as deep as you can.  I am large also which is causing problems especially after our first child.  Also, I help MW out by finishing for her.  There has been some times that MW has been able to finish it for me usually after teasing me a lot.

     I would ask your DH what he suggests would be a good solution for the both of you.

  • Can you put your finger on the back of your tongue without gagging? You can train yourself to not gag. All that said, I can't convince my wife to train herself. Ugh. 
  • imagebinzy2524:
    Good question because at least you can get some of it in your mouth. My H is thicker than a coke can seriously. I cant even get his head in my mouth. My hand only goes half way around his shaft. If you find the answer post it here

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  • Good Head Gel is helpful
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  • imageThatGothChick:

    imagebinzy2524:
    Good question because at least you can get some of it in your mouth. My H is thicker than a coke can seriously. I cant even get his head in my mouth. My hand only goes half way around his shaft. If you find the answer post it here

    image

     

     binzy=troll

    He/she/it only ever pops up to tell us all about her* husband's coke-can penis.

    *Needless to say, I'm doubtful whether binzy is female or in fact has ever even had anything resembling sex. 

  • You are not breathing through your nose which is causing you to gag. You won't gag if you learn to relax, and breath through your nose not your mouth. 

     

     

  • imageartbyallie:

     binzy=troll

    He/she/it only ever pops up to tell us all about her* husband's coke-can penis.

    *Needless to say, I'm doubtful whether binzy is female or in fact has ever even had anything resembling sex. 

     Oh I see... I *sort of* had a feeling, but I suppose it's humanly possible somewhere in the world. IndifferentConfusedConfused

  • Unless he says so, you don't have to deep throat him to help him ***. Licking, kissing, stroking, etc. are all great things when you are taking care of him, Even sucking (the portion you can fit) is great. For us it's usually the changes in tempo, the diversity and the feeling that gets things going....feeling the back of your throat, um....not so much.
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  • Artbyallie actually your the troll. I have been here since 2007 and you? oh 2010. Artbyallie if you would like a Pic of my hubby's penis please let me know. I hate when people get jealous. Seriously his penis is that thick, pics are the proof. Poor artbyallie must have a pencil for a husband and is jealous.
  • imagebinzy2524:
    Artbyallie actually your the troll. I have been here since 2007 and you? oh 2010. Artbyallie if you would like a Pic of my hubby's penis please let me know. I hate when people get jealous. Seriously his penis is that thick, pics are the proof. Poor artbyallie must have a pencil for a husband and is jealous.

    Not to be rude, but I don't think anybody really cares. Either way it's your husband and I think it's something that should be kept between you and him.

  • It's a sex board , but when someone calls me out I will show facts. Personally everything on this board is personal so your point?
  • Artbyallie still waiting? want proof or you another lib liar, who post lies and runs?
  • imagebinzy2524:
    It's a sex board , but when someone calls me out I will show facts. Personally everything on this board is personal so your point?

     

    True. I just think that it's a personal thing and should be kept between S/O's.

  • I hope you've found a solution that works for you by now but if not you can try lubing up your hands and using your hands as an extension of your mouth.  Hold a tight grip with your hands and move your hands with your mouth.  I don't recommend the numbing sprays or gel because I've had clients tell me they hurt their throat from the thrusting but because their throat was numb they didn't realize it until the next morning.  You shouldn't have to numb your body to enjoy anything.  Good Luck.  If this works for you check out our website for more ideas and sex tricks.  www.naomisays.net

     

    Naomi Says www.naomisays.net
  • imageThatGothChick:

    imagebinzy2524:
    Good question because at least you can get some of it in your mouth. My H is thicker than a coke can seriously. I cant even get his head in my mouth. My hand only goes half way around his shaft. If you find the answer post it here

    image

    LOL My thoughts exactly ;p

  • Yeah pics maybe proof but anyone can pull a pict of the Internet and call it their husbands penis. Nobody really gives a crap about your non existent coke penis. Perhaps you should be choking on some sperm rather than trolling a board your whore. 
  • I have had similar issues and the best thing to do is use you hand as an extention of your mouth. Also don't be afraid to use your tongue. There is a very sensitive spot for men about an inch below the head, on the shaft, that I know makes my husband go crazy when I rub it with my tongue.  You can always search the internet and find a chart of sensitive zones on a man's part. Try hitting them randomly throughout to give your guy a great time and don't worry about trying to get every inch of him in your mouth. The more you think about it, the harder it becomes to do!
  • @spalko:
    You guys are a great looking couple!
  • MW uses one of her hands to prevent me from going too deep and gagging her.  When she does allow me to finish, she will use that hand to stroke me while sucking on me.
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