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Dec. 17th Randoms

Re: Dec. 17th Randoms

  • imagecharitylynne_1979:
    How is everyone?

     

    Meh.  There are good days & bad days.  You know how that goes, I'm guessing.

  • Not good - just when we need need money more than ever I had to go and get sick sick. I have now taken mon and tues off work (paid sick days are already used up) :( I told H I'm going to work as soon as I can keep food down. 

    I suppose I should be thankful I'm sick now and I'm sure I'll be better by the time this weekend rolls around so I can celebrate with family...but the way finances are right now...well we all know how that goes. 

    Ignore the politics and enjoy life!
  • I thought I was getting sick Sunday night & was really concerned I'd have to take time off.  I'm sorry yours turned into something!
  • I hear ya girls. Counting my few blessing that we are health for now. I can't believe Christmas is only a few days away. Where did the time go.
  • I finally broke down last night. It's all hitting me at once. I don't think I can continue on any kind of friendship with M right now. My boss is threatening that he isn't going to pay for time we leave early on Xmas Eve and NYE nor the days he gives us off for Christmas and New Years. I am screwed even with the money that I have in savings. I dunno what to do. Heck  since I am spending both holidays alone, I might as well just come sit here in the office - maybe then I'll get paid.
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  • I'm so sorry, charitylynne. Have you looked into a DivorceCare group? I couldn't have made it without the one I went to.
  • imageWendyGR:
    I'm so sorry, charitylynne. Have you looked into a DivorceCare group? I couldn't have made it without the one I went to.

     

    Where did you find something like this?  I found one or two at churches, but the divorce has to be final already.  I need something for this in between time.  

  • that's odd. Mine was at a church but it did not have the final requirement. In fact we celebrated when my divorce was finally final :-) Found them through http://www.divorcecare.org

  • imageWendyGR:

    that's odd. Mine was at a church but it did not have the final requirement. In fact we celebrated when my divorce was finally final :-) Found them through http://www.divorcecare.org

     

    Thanks.  I don't know why they had that requirement, but it didn't seem very helpful for those of us thrown into the situation suddenly, just trying to figure out what is going on.  There's only one in my area, but it might work.  I am reaching out to a lot of different places, but none are for specific separation/divorce support, so I need that too.  As much as I keep hoping, I think he's pretty much trying to erase that our life together ever happened & won't be coming back.  The former part probably hurts the most right now.

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